It's great to have you back Mevakesh! Like a brother coming home 

The JewishPress has printed an article this week about our site. It's in the family issues section (I think), on page F3... Problem is, I live in Israel and have no access to the Jewish Press. Could someone do me a chesed and buy the Jewish press and scan in the article and send it to eyes.guard@gmail.com - as soon as possible? I really would like to see what they wrote...

Also, if someone could actually mail me the original, that would be also great!

It could be mailed to the Rabbi in Israel who is willing to help us and have donations sent to him.

Rabbi Yaakov Brandvein - for GUE
Reitport 28/4
Betar Ilit 90500
Israel

If you think you can do this for me, post here on the forum so others will see and know that it was taken care of :-) Tizke Lemitzvos!

Dearest Elya K, Mevakesh and Me,

I finally figured out how to make you guys into "global Moderators" of this forum. You can now delete posts! So if you see something inappropriate, please delete it right away!

You can also do a host of other cool things now as well...

I can't tell you how much I appreciate having you guys on this forum. The chizuk that goes on here brings tears to my eyes! Keep up the wonderful work. There can be no greater Tikkun than to strengthen others. Not only is this a form of Teshuvah, and not only does this strengthen us in turn, but we are actually "uplifting" our past sins, in a sense, by using the very falls we had - to help others! This turns the sins into merits (like Chaza"l say happens with Teshuvah from love :-)

I would be happy one day after 120 to have a special place in gan-eden together with all of you. It will be the "GuardUrEyes" palace of Hashem's glory. All those who have beaten this and helped others as well, will be there :-)

Attention Everyone!

We added a great new section to our site under the Tips Section. It's called "Collections of Tips & Chizuk from Fellow Strugglers" and all your tips are in there! Check it out...

There's a special page for Mevakesh, Elya k, Me, Snax, Crackerjack and Shmirat Ainayim... All the great chizuk and tips that you've been sharing on the forum and by e-mail, are now be accessible to everyone!

And besides that, we've been collecting tips from other users for over a year and they are all there as well...

So people! Keep sending in your tips and chizuk, and we'll keep putting them up... Sometimes we wish we had had all these resources years ago... Well, the future generations of Jews who struggle with this will have so much to fall back on... Who knows, maybe one day this all might even end up in a book (I'll bet it will)....

Menachem, I added your story to our "Determined to Quit" section of our Stories. Here's the page: www.guardureyes.com/GUE/Stories/Determined8.asp

Keep up the good work!

Niceguy, I added your story to our site under the "Determined to Quit" Stories section. Here's the page: www.guardureyes.com/GUE/Stories/Determined10.asp

I find your attitude very healthy and inspiring, and I hope others can learn from your very real struggle and grow. Keep up the good work!

Jack you're doing great!
You are going to be one great example to us all that it's never too late to change.
And that no matter how addicted one might be, if Jack can do it - we all can!

I added your story to our site here.

Your attitude is inspiring! You are really learning the tricks of the trade :-)

BTW. Did you sign up yet with eNativ or Internet Rimon (with the white-list option)? Not doing this is like keeping a prostitute in your house at all times. You won't be able to truly break free until you keep access to these things far away from yourself so you don't slip in weak moments...

It is great that you are so open and honest about your fall. This is a great incentive for the future to stay clean, not to disappoint all those who are with you in this struggle... It is also great that you are honestly exploring what it was exactly that brought you to fall, so you can know what to avoid in the future,  or at least be aware for next time that these things are triggers and be extra cautious.

Keep riding the waves until you reach the shore!

Thanks niceguy for the vort from the Chofetz Chaim. I used it in today's chizuk list!

You seem to be having a lot of help from heaven! Haba Letaher Mesayin Lo.

You know, sometimes because Hashem has given a person such a difficult job and he knows how hard it is for them, he gives them special heavenly help in the form of signs and dreams. The fear you felt last night was helpful in your struggle now, but even more than that, I would feel committed simply because Hashem is showing you how much he loves you and wants to help you.

Talk to him every day. Tell him how your day went before you go to sleep, and ask him to hold your hand tomorrow as well.