Goyim just means "nations". It is not derogatory.
And by the way, the Torah starts off talking about the issurim of arayos with the words "kimaasei eretz mitzrayim - and - eretz kinaan, lo saaseh".
We don't have to be more politically right than the Torah.
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A girl who read your post asked me to post this:
I don't know if it's my place to say this as a girl - that's why I'm sending this email to you and not to needsyirasshamayim. He posted on the forum regarding his 16 year old son who was found groping the cleaning lady. It could be I'm totally off the mark with what I'm saying - but I'm gonna add my two cents in anyway As a girl who was molestd by her brothers, I think that he should take this incident seriously. He has other children to protect that he C"V does not want them to be affected by this too. There is nothing that can replace the unconditional love a parent has for a child, but loving him means doing the right thing. I see that he obviously realizes that it is a problem - because he posted about it, but once his son's actions became physical and not only gazing etc. he must do something proactive about it. True - he's a teenager and might not listen so fast - but you will be saving him and all your other children! I'm begging him - please! take your son to a different therapist if this one isn't working out. You don't want to land up like my parents are - stuck between their children... Not every therapist is the right shaliach. Discuss this incident with the herapist. See what You can do to help your son. But don't ignore it before it gets too late... Don't just say he's an addict - he needs help! You can find some good therapists on our website: www.guardyoureyes.com/therapists />I would particularly suggest Rabbi Simcha Feuerman and/or Brad Saltzman
Also, print out our handbook for him to read, and have him join our 12-Step phone conferences. We just started a new cycle on the phone: www.guardyoureyes.com/component/zoo/item/big-book-study-group /> Hatzlacha
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Thanks for all your feedback. We closed on venishmartem.com/org Mazal Tov to Klal Yisrael. A new holy org/site was born today! :D
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After speaking over with some big Rabbanim, we decided that it would be best for everyone to divide GYE's Prevention (filters, shmiras ainyaim, etc.) as a completely different website, under a different organization... We're brain-storming right now for a name and we need your help... One good name might be: venishmartem.com (which says "Prevention" clearly) Another possibility is losasuru.com - like on this flyer (the organizer of the event said we can have the name. He will be working with us anyway). Some else suggested Facethechallenge.com The name should preferably include not just internet protection, but shmiras ainayim as well... Here are some other ideas that were put forth so far: protectyoureyes secureyourhome purehomes cleaninternet kosherinternet glatthome glatweb glateyes koshereyes vehiskadishtem internetshemira.com computersafety.com Meetthechallenge.com Meetingthechallenge.com
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English Flyer Here Yiddish Flyer Here Dear Parents: Do you need a laptop, cellphone, blackberry, smart phone, etc., but want to protect yourself, your family, and your future? We’re here and ready to help you. Dear Businessmen: Do you need full internet access for your business, but feel a responsibility to yourself, your family, and your employees? We’re here and ready to help you. 20 Professional technicians are volunteering their time - To advise you how to protect yourself, according to your needs,
- To install the protection you choose, on the spot
- To disable the wifi of your laptop,
All free of charge! Men’s Night Enjoy a “Leil Shishi” delicious hot buffet and fruit platters There will also be workshops for men, advising about the dangers of modern technology, as well as advice about methods of protection. Thursday evening, March 22 At the Karlisburg Hall 1556 53 Street From 7:00 PM to 12:00 AM Technical Helplines: - TAG (267) 295-1954
- GYE (646) 600-8100
- Safetech Hotline (855) 212-7233 Blue Fx | 347.296.8806
Technicians that would like to join, to help sponsor, or for general information, please call 732-901-6176 or 347-869-7331
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March 15, 2012 On Thursday night, March 1, 2012, 15 Kallah teachers gathered at a private meeting in Boro Park to discuss ShmirasEiynaim and the effect it is having on SholomBayis within the frum community. Life Coach, Esther Katz of Memphis, Tennessee was invited to speak to these women about ShmirasEiynaim and how to advise Kallahs on issues of SholomBayis, Her topic was, “I discovered my husband has been looking at inappropriate pictures, what I do now?” Mrs. Katz and her husband Allan, a certified rehabilitation counselor, have been helping couples on www.guardyoueyes.com for over four years, to repair their marriages torn asunder by the ravages of sex and love addiction. Mrs. Katz explained the addiction / disease model to the teachers and the need for couples to begin counseling with a certified sex addiction therapist. She went on to explain how wives should set boundaries and not work harder on their husband’s recovery than their husbands are. Mrs. Katz’s talk received rave reviews, as the teachers group is working on having Mrs. Katz return to speak to more Kallahteachers. Mr. & Mrs. Katz are available to give lectures and workshops on SholomBayis and addictions related to shmiras eiynaim. For more information or to schedule a talk in your area, contact Esther Katz at 901-219-3072.
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www.guardureyes.com/GUE/misc/SatmarRebbeOnInternet.mov Translation from the Yiddish: ( thepartialview.blogspot.com/ ) The yetzer Hora could not fathom the success of klal yisroel and the rebuilding of torah and chesed in America and he brought tummah in the form of technology into jewish homes that caused them to sin. Just like in the time of Haman so too today we have Keilim that have entered our homes and cause us to sin. They are in the form of videos, DVDs, the Internet, a new makkah called facebook, twiters, and other various names. Others know of these better than i do. Unfortunately it claimed many korbanos and destroyed many jewish homes. Frum ehrliche kids from the best of homes, threw off the yoke of torah and mitzvos publicly, with no shame. There are those who did not go as far, yet, they walk around outwardly dressed in a chasidishe levush but on the inside they are rotting and do kol davar assur discreetly in the privacy of their home. It has entrapped youngeleit ,baal habatim, bochrim, girls and married men and women of all ages. It all starts with thekvetch of a knepel ,the push of a button, in one second they went into the dirty ports and they arrived at Sheol tachtis. Plunging into the lowest of the low . Its a Makka of which one touch of a button you are joined with others. Its called chatrooms such as facebook were you socialize and connect with others. Men hooking up with light headed women with prutzim and prutzos. Yiddishe kinder are sending pictures of themselves to each other. It makes your hair stand up to what is going on in our machneh of shomrei torah umitzvos. Even the kosher ones is addicting like a magnet, it ruins shalom bayis to the worst degree sometimes its the man of the house sometimes its the mother of the home. The man looses his wife and she looses her husband you cant talk to the husband his mind is totally occupied with his computer day and night. The yetzer hora of arayos is burning like a fire up to the sky. It consumes daily precious neshamos of yiddesher kinder .The maakos of DVDs videos etc...even though initially it starts off kosher with a heter it eventually leads to what chazal say hayom omar lo aseh kach muchur aseh kach etc. untill we come to the worst. This is a fact, it happens and we cant fool ourselves with so called passwords and other safeguards and think that it is protected from others gaining access to it. this is a mistake. Kids and youngsters are smarter and more tech savvy than their parents and can get around the so called protections. The rebbe ended with a plea to the Women to have mercy on their mishpachos and get rid of these keilim from their homes.if one needs it for parnasah it should be moved out of the house to a different location. In the zechus of us protecting and safeguarding out families from this shmutzmay Hk'bh protect and watch over klal yisrael.
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You've come to the right place. Please see our " First Time Here" page for 10 initial suggestions to help you get started on your journey to a NEW YOU.
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GYE's technician team (who help people find filters for all their devices) are looking for phones to test filtering software on. Anyone who may have spare phones (or who wants to donate phones), it would be a big help for GYE and a zikui harabbim. We're looking for: - Androids - Blackberries - iPhones - Symbians - Palms (They must have Wifi) If you have something to donate, please be in touch with us at eyes.guard@gmail.com. Tizke Lemitzvos!
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