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Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 17 Nov 2022 21:05 #387881

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I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 18 Nov 2022 16:22 #387949

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84 days. Warm hugs and cold IPAs. Good shabbos.
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 18 Nov 2022 17:03 #387951

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Human being wrote on 18 Nov 2022 16:22:
84 days. Warm hugs and cold IPAs. Good shabbos.
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!

And cold WHAT??!!!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

Feel free to pm me!

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 18 Nov 2022 17:08 #387952

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Btw regarding ur spoiler… it happened to be a great sign!! Ask Hhm abt it… he gave me a beautiful explanation abt I  could give it to you but I think he’ll do a better job! So give him a call… גוט שבת!!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

Feel free to pm me!
Last Edit: 18 Nov 2022 17:13 by geshmak!.

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 20 Nov 2022 01:52 #387975

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86. lalalalalalalalmamamamnanananababababavavavavacacacacaxaxaxaxazazazazasasasasadadadadafafafafagagagagahahahahajajajajakakakakalalalalapapapapaoaoaoaoaiaiaiaiauauauauayayayayatatatatararararaeaeaeaeawawawawaqaqaqaqa
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 20 Nov 2022 01:55 #387978

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Human being wrote on 20 Nov 2022 01:52:
86. lalalalalalalalmamamamnanananababababavavavavacacacacaxaxaxaxazazazazasasasasadadadadafafafafagagagagahahahahajajajajakakakakalalalalapapapapaoaoaoaoaiaiaiaiauauauauayayayayatatatatararararaeaeaeaeawawawawaqaqaqaqa

Amazing!!!!! Keep on going!

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 20 Nov 2022 02:11 #387982

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Human being wrote on 20 Nov 2022 01:52:
86. lalalalalalalalmamamamnanananababababavavavavacacacacaxaxaxaxazazazazasasasasadadadadafafafafagagagagahahahahajajajajakakakakalalalalapapapapaoaoaoaoaiaiaiaiauauauauayayayayatatatatararararaeaeaeaeawawawawaqaqaqaqa

Wow!! Your almost there!! Keep it up!!
btw what language is that word?!? Love it!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

Feel free to pm me!

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 20 Nov 2022 04:22 #387991

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Its just human language :-)
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 20 Nov 2022 04:25 #387992

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Human being wrote on 20 Nov 2022 04:22:
Its just human language :-)

AH!! אה!! 

I wish all humans would talk that fun loving geshmakah language…
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

Feel free to pm me!

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 20 Nov 2022 04:28 #387993

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Human being wrote on 20 Nov 2022 01:52:
86. lalalalalalalalmamamamnanananababababavavavavacacacacaxaxaxaxazazazazasasasasadadadadafafafafagagagagahahahahajajajajakakakakalalalalapapapapaoaoaoaoaiaiaiaiauauauauayayayayatatatatararararaeaeaeaeawawawawaqaqaqaqa

bH you are doing great. You'll change your name from Human Being to Mentsch and after that Heiligeh Mentsch!
Keep it up we're all very proud of you.

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 20 Nov 2022 09:07 #387996

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Amazing. Keep on going strong, we are all rooting for you
Feel free to message me at ILAHCFM@gmail.com

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 21 Nov 2022 02:54 #388039

i disagree, human being is the pinnacle of creation. when we mess up and act like animals then we stary from that honored title

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 21 Nov 2022 05:27 #388044

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So bh im going to be at 90 in 3 days. Once again i spent a lot of time today researching things that were not so "tznius".

I was also on a website that had a very big mix of pictures including nude ones. I didn't fall per se' and what i mean by that is, I didn't do any sexualized browsing for the point of sexual browsing. And therefor Bh i didn't masturbate either. At the same time i have to be honest to myself that these forays into sexual topics or topics that i would need to be on websites that have other inappropriate material on there besides or the material I want, is not a good idea until after marriage (bh one day) when my wife is available.



Because even though i didn't do any browsing to get myself turned on, i never the less was around porn material for a few hours which automatically makes it 10 times harder to avoid falling. because just being in the vicinity even though I'm not clicking on the website links, turns on the challenging thoughts of my mind of "Just do it out of curiosity not lust", etc.



So I'm understanding as i write this, that even if i didn't do anything wrong per se' (I did slip a couple times and could've avoided it, so I was wrong) but avoiding wrong or right on the "smaller" issues, I still have to keep in mind that i cant give myself tests like this. Yes I'm going to pass the test on the "bigger issues" and I'm not going to watch porn or masturbate, but no, i cannot put myself into a situation where I'm making it that much more of a challenge, until beezras Hashem one day when I'm married when i have "a way out" of immediate sexual tension.    (and even then i shouldn't)
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.
Last Edit: 21 Nov 2022 05:28 by human being.

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 21 Nov 2022 19:50 #388061

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Human being wrote on 21 Nov 2022 05:27:
So bh im going to be at 90 in 3 days. Once again i spent a lot of time today researching things that were not so "tznius".

I was also on a website that had a very big mix of pictures including nude ones. I didn't fall per se' and what i mean by that is, I didn't do any sexualized browsing for the point of sexual browsing. And therefor Bh i didn't masturbate either. At the same time i have to be honest to myself that these forays into sexual topics or topics that i would need to be on websites that have other inappropriate material on there besides or the material I want, is not a good idea until after marriage (bh one day) when my wife is available.



Because even though i didn't do any browsing to get myself turned on, i never the less was around porn material for a few hours which automatically makes it 10 times harder to avoid falling. because just being in the vicinity even though I'm not clicking on the website links, turns on the challenging thoughts of my mind of "Just do it out of curiosity not lust", etc.



So I'm understanding as i write this, that even if i didn't do anything wrong per se' (I did slip a couple times and could've avoided it, so I was wrong) but avoiding wrong or right on the "smaller" issues, I still have to keep in mind that i cant give myself tests like this. Yes I'm going to pass the test on the "bigger issues" and I'm not going to watch porn or masturbate, but no, i cannot put myself into a situation where I'm making it that much more of a challenge, until beezras Hashem one day when I'm married when i have "a way out" of immediate sexual tension.    (and even then i shouldn't)

Amazing stuff! Hope you find your basherter really fast and easy…
but I can’t understand-Why don’t you have a filter?!?! Like isn’t that basics for a good Jew like you…
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

Feel free to pm me!

Re: Destination - 90 days, A human beings journey. 22 Nov 2022 05:15 #388087

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Thanks for asking! I actually don't have any computer at all. I use public computers because when i have my own screens i automatically watch porn.
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.
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