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Re: Journey of one day at a time 15 Aug 2017 01:22 #318795

Day 26: Started working the steps today with a sponsor, B"H. 
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

"Think good and it will be good!"

Re: Journey of one day at a time 15 Aug 2017 23:28 #318828

Day 27: Nothing much today. Been worrying too much about if I will get this job. G-d runs the world. I've just gotta let go. 
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

"Think good and it will be good!"

Re: Journey of one day at a time 17 Aug 2017 03:42 #318885

Day 28: It's so funny how for many lusting has nothing to do with lust. Frustration, anger, fear and resentments is the name of the game. 
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

"Think good and it will be good!"

Re: Journey of one day at a time 17 Aug 2017 05:04 #318892

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Ihavestrength wrote on 17 Aug 2017 03:42:
Day 28: It's so funny how for many lusting has nothing to do with lust. Frustration, anger, fear and resentments is the name of the game. 

As the white book says "Lust was not our problem, it was our solution."
If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can. 

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Re: Journey of one day at a time 17 Aug 2017 14:12 #318904

Day 29: Morning call today. Always good. Getting up early for minyan is hard sometimes, but I usually don't regret doing so. 
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

"Think good and it will be good!"

Re: Journey of one day at a time 18 Aug 2017 03:04 #318952

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Shlomo where is that quote in the white book?

I always resent people that say that in a newcomer meeting because thats what i wanted to share! They beat me to it!
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor. 

Re: Journey of one day at a time 18 Aug 2017 13:42 #318963

Day 30: Called a recovery buddy last night. Did a bit of work on step one. Shachris. Morning call. Chizuk email. Post on GYE. Write my to do list. Time to get to work. 

Have a great shabbos!
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

"Think good and it will be good!"

Re: Journey of one day at a time 18 Aug 2017 18:10 #318967

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Ihavestrength wrote on 18 Aug 2017 13:42:
Day 30: Called a recovery buddy last night. Did a bit of work on step one. Shachris. Morning call. Chizuk email. Post on GYE. Write my to do list. Time to get to work. 

Have a great shabbos!

What is your step 1? Powerless over lust?
If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can. 

Email: iam24zman@gmail.com

Re: Journey of one day at a time 19 Aug 2017 23:06 #318981

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I have this long litany of things I am powerless over until I finally just say I am powerless over everything and everyone.
It's good though for me to go through them all when I do.
And I try to start with lust because it's the gem that brought me to here and to the program.
Sorry I know you were not asking me
Just spent 20m catching up so had to post something!

Re: Journey of one day at a time 20 Aug 2017 01:56 #318982

Day 31: "You should never regret anything in life. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience."

Gut voch! 
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

"Think good and it will be good!"

Re: Journey of one day at a time 20 Aug 2017 05:37 #318986

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You're just a regular Confucius, aren't you! Damn, son.
If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can. 

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Re: Journey of one day at a time 20 Aug 2017 19:09 #319016

Day 32: Hi, hello. Do you need to have everything in order?
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

"Think good and it will be good!"

Re: Journey of one day at a time 20 Aug 2017 19:49 #319022

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Ihavestrength wrote on 20 Aug 2017 19:09:
Day 32: Hi, hello. Do you need to have everything in order?

No.
If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can. 

Email: iam24zman@gmail.com

Re: Journey of one day at a time 21 Aug 2017 16:28 #319052

33: This is a historic day for me. I started this thread many months ago after a fall following 32 days clean (check out the first post of this thread it's super cool).
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

"Think good and it will be good!"
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Re: Journey of one day at a time 21 Aug 2017 17:34 #319053

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Ihavestrength wrote on 21 Aug 2017 16:28:
33: This is a historic day for me. I started this thread many months ago after a fall following 32 days clean (check out the first post of this thread it's super cool).

you are good, keep it up, 33 is a good day... Lag Boimer.... yes you can, but remember, take it on a daily basis..
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My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

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