shalom! Ive been struggling for about 11 years, I discovered P when I was about 9. Over the last 3 years I've been trying very hard to overcome P and M. I very rarely fall for hardcore P, I do fall for softcore P more than I'd like. I have enough blockers in place to live a semi-modern life. I'm looking for someone experienced to talk to who struggled with P and softcore P for a longtime and has gotten over it! A mentor who still lives a semi-modern life and is able to watch a movie every once in a while. Please keep in touch. There's nothing I want more that to get close to הקב"ה and receive his blessing, and PandM is what is stopping me from my goals. Kol tuv, chag sameach!

hey said me message. i know exactly what you going through and how hard it is! looking forward!

Reach out to proudyungerman who has a list of mentors. The mentor doesn't have to be someone who watches movies. He just has to be able to leave space for someone who does and work with him on his level. You just have to tell the mentor where you are holding religiously and which things you don't want to change. I think all the mentors on his list can do that. It is part and parcel of being a good mentor.

Here is a list of mentors that can help:

HHM (Hashem Help Me) - michelgelner@gmail.com, Eerie - 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com, ChaimOigen – chaim.oigen@gmail.com, Muttel - muttel15@gmail.com, Iwannalivereal iwannalivereal@gmail.com, Vehkam vehkam7@gmail.com, Amevakesh amevakesh23@gmail.com, ProudYungerman proudyungerman@gmail.com, Iwantlife - iwantlifegye@proton.me.

Hatzlacha on your journey!