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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:21 #424968

iwantlife NOW ONLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 130 Karma: 16	Reading and podcasts. I should consider that. Both screen-free options! I do find though that the self-help / marriage books, though I find them fascinating, still fall into the category of "work" books more than relaxation books, if you know what I mean. So when I want to be "entertained", I don't turn to those. Those get read when I make a set time, a seder, to read them...
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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:27 #424970

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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:29 #424971

iwantlife NOW ONLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 130 Karma: 16	Again with the learning. I'm looking to avoid thinking too hard here. I think hard all day..
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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:39 #424975

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If I don’t want to think I use music.

When breaking free, I found any other type of “kosher” entertainment took me in the wrong direction.

Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:42 #424977

proudyungerman Current streak: 323 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 485 Karma: 25	If I am off mark, please excuse me. (It's a good article anyway...) This back and forth reminded me of the following powerful article. What does relaxation look like for you? What are you trying to get out of it?
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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:47 #424979

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vehkam wrote on 13 Nov 2024 04:39:

If I don’t want to think I use music.

When breaking free, I found any other type of “kosher” entertainment took me in the wrong direction.

I agree. I'm also well aware of R' Chaim(oigen's) groundbreaking shtickel in stencils about "The Posture of Pornography" . It's a madreigah; right now I'm trying to walk the tightrope, and avoid my previous other outlets like YouTube and non-jewish music (emphasis on music).

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Last Edit: 13 Nov 2024 04:51 by iwantlife.

Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:49 #424980

iwantlife NOW ONLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 130 Karma: 16	proudyungerman wrote on 13 Nov 2024 04:42: If I am off mark, please excuse me. (It's a good article anyway...) This back and forth reminded me of the following powerful article. What does relaxation look like for you? What are you trying to get out of it? Ah I see proudyungerman beat me to it. Yes, I'm fully aware of this yesod, I'm just not there yet.
	"Believe you can and you're halfway there" - Theodore Roosevelt "Comparison is the thief of joy" - also Theodore Roosevelt Feel free to email me at iwantlifegye@proton.me or call/text ‪(347) 948-6542‬ (Google Voice) Last Edit: 13 Nov 2024 04:50 by iwantlife.

Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:56 #424981

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One step at a time! You have to find what works for you.

That is a fantastic article and very similar to my experience.

Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 04:59 #424982

rebakiva OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 204 Karma: 12	How about reading a nice story, like something about YKW transforming PY into a zombie ??? Think that can work wonders.
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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 11:11 #424990

odyossefchai Current streak: 107 days NOW ONLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 233 Karma: 13	Get into cooking and baking. I'm a sourdough geek/nerd. (And a geek/nerd in just about everything else!!!) Great for relaxing the brain!
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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 14:14 #424999

BenHashemBH NOW ONLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 763 Karma: 23	How about Jewish history, or Meam Loez on Nach (also Jewish history lol)? Maybe that would be more relaxing because it's like reading a story.
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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 14:51 #425001

iwantlife NOW ONLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 130 Karma: 16	Hmm that does sound like more relaxing 'work'. Maybe. Though my wife makes the sourdough in my house. Then again, I was thinking I would love to make my own beef jerky..
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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 14:56 #425002

iwantlife NOW ONLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 130 Karma: 16	I do like history. That's a good idea. And I started Nach soo many times lol. Actually made it to shoftim.
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Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 16:43 #425012

wantingbetter Current streak: 48 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 58 Karma: 3	odyossefchai wrote on 13 Nov 2024 11:11: Get into cooking and baking. I'm a sourdough geek/nerd. (And a geek/nerd in just about everything else!!!) Great for relaxing the brain! Just bursted out laughing in my office....

Re: Sick and tired 13 Nov 2024 16:43 #425013

amevakesh Current streak: 508 days NOW ONLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 255 Karma: 24	iwantlife wrote on 13 Nov 2024 14:56: I do like history. That's a good idea. And I started Nach soo many times lol. Actually made it to shoftim. History for the curious from JLE (Mena Reisner and Aubrey Hirsch) and Jewish history soundbites from Yehuda Geberer are good places to start.
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