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The Eishes Chayil 28 Jan 2024 18:54 #407727

seagull OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 1 Karma: 0	Hi to all the Warriors of our generation. I am currently on the path to recovery from internet abuse. It is a process that as we know can take months. And along the way we fall in from time to time. My question is, how should my wife take the situation in a way that is only encouraging to my growth, and what support can she get, going through this period. Please reply if anyone can be of help.

Re: The Eishes Chayil 28 Jan 2024 19:02 #407728

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seagull wrote on 28 Jan 2024 18:54:

Hi to all the Warriors of our generation. I am currently on the path to recovery from internet abuse. It is a process that as we know can take months. And along the way we fall in from time to time. My question is, how should my wife take the situation in a way that is only encouraging to my growth, and what support can she get, going through this period. Please reply if anyone can be of help.

see guardyoureyes.com/component/content/article/36-resources-for-wives-of-strugglers

Re: The Eishes Chayil 28 Jan 2024 22:16 #407740

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2918 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4058	One of the best things for her is to speak to the mentor you are dealing with over here.
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: The Eishes Chayil 28 Jan 2024 23:41 #407744

parev OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 469	"....in a way that is only encouraging to my growth," I learnt the hard way that I can't be dependant on my wifes support encouragement understanding or willingness to help However the results spoke for themselves - not necessarily the day count - the attitude and behaviour changes in and out of the bedroom She is my biggest [silent] supporter since!
	Marbitz torah and communal askan in E Yisroel \| 30's \| Went to rehab \| Avid SA'er Not perfect yet, but a changed person 180 degrees If you think you know who I am, and want to reach out for further chizzuk, I have nothing to hide in real life and would love to share my ESH with you Last Edit: 28 Jan 2024 23:42 by parev.

Re: The Eishes Chayil 29 Jan 2024 01:29 #407764

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parev wrote on 28 Jan 2024 23:41:

"....in a way that is only encouraging to my growth,"

I learnt the hard way that I can't be dependant on my wifes support encouragement understanding or willingness to help

However the results spoke for themselves - not necessarily the day count - the attitude and behaviour changes in and out of the bedroom
She is my biggest [silent] supporter since!

This may seem obtuse, but would you elaborate a bit on that?

"It is not our abilities that show who we truly are, it is our choices.” ---- Albus Dumbeldore (as per Chris Columbus)

Re: The Eishes Chayil 29 Jan 2024 01:38 #407765

parev OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 469	explain your q and ill try to A
	Marbitz torah and communal askan in E Yisroel \| 30's \| Went to rehab \| Avid SA'er Not perfect yet, but a changed person 180 degrees If you think you know who I am, and want to reach out for further chizzuk, I have nothing to hide in real life and would love to share my ESH with you

Re: The Eishes Chayil 29 Jan 2024 01:40 #407766

richtig OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 561 Karma: 30	Trying to gain insight into the silent support- how do you feel her support if she is silent?
	"It is not our abilities that show who we truly are, it is our choices.” ---- Albus Dumbeldore (as per Chris Columbus)

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