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Re: Again 22 Mar 2021 12:51 #365867

  • Striving Avreich
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If אין הדבר תלוי אלא בי, what are you going to do to stay sober? What is the plan of action?

Re: Again 22 Mar 2021 13:11 #365870

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Welcome! Why don't you try out these great free resources?

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

Hatzlocha!

Edit: If the links don't work, please try the links below in my signature. For some reason, the app is messing up the links.
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge
Last Edit: 22 Mar 2021 13:13 by Captain.

Re: Again 22 Mar 2021 14:19 #365873

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Welcome home! 
It takes a lot to come here, very impressive.
May you be matzliach and keep being moser Nefesh for tahara v’kedusha.

YeshivaGuy

Re: Again 22 Mar 2021 14:52 #365875

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Striving Avreich wrote on 22 Mar 2021 12:51:
If אין הדבר תלוי אלא בי, what are you going to do to stay sober? What is the plan of action?

Well, let me quote my own words from earlier this morning:

I will decide with the utmost absoluteness that from now on I will try my best to stay sober, to beseech my god and try to do his will only, forever.


Now the question is how will I decide and what will I do to reach my goal? Ok so here comes the challenge, I have to ask myself Why are you here and what's your goal, do you really want to quit and give up on your old bad habits? and my answer has to be with full honesty, because if I'm not completely ready to give up my old self I know that I'll never succeed, I'll stay in my current situation in best case scenario or fall even deeper c"v, now, I can answer that I'm ready to give up and start anew, but if it's big talk only it will remain talk only, I must totally give up my old lifestyle here and now with no other option and I must be totally honest with hashem, with you guys and most importantly with myself.

So now let me get to myself and ask me this question, hear the answer and I'll be back with further plans.

CU all.
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