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Re: just joined 08 Jan 2021 03:51 #360832

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Findingmywayback wrote on 08 Jan 2021 02:18:
I am also new to this process and learning as I go along. The process works and the struggle is worth it. Just knowing that there are so many other people out there who are going through the same thing...to know you are not alone. It is like someone reached out a hand to you and is pulling you up, out of the dark place we fall into. Something that helps me, advice from my social worker: porn was a problem, but deeper than that it was how I was self treating a problem. Once I identfied what I was using porn to escape from, and started to honestly address that issue, it started to dissolve my need for porn The struggle is ongoing, but gets better everyday. Keep up the fight, keep up your faith. I hope this was helpful friend.

Excellent post - You may be new, but your head is BH screwed on straight.
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Re: just joined 08 Jan 2021 04:19 #360838

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Thank you, may g_d grant you success in your journey. 

Re: just joined 15 Jan 2021 02:26 #361348

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A Brother wrote on 05 Jan 2021 17:02:
To all the heiligeh yidden who have been encouraging me so far
For the first time in a very long while I am clean for 4 days. Your assistance has gotten me thus far. Thank you all my brothers and friends I feel like a human being

Cmon man I’m gonna stop chasing u if I keep leaving ur family!
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Re: just joined 17 Jan 2021 15:24 #361440

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Thank you@yeshivaguy you rock... b”h it’s been a while since I have watched.... but I’m still struggling with mz”l, but even that is getting less frequent. I still feel kinda awful about falling on Friday in this area but we are definitely going up here

Re: just joined 17 Jan 2021 15:31 #361442

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And, on the topic of what @findingmywayback said, I also realized that I used these things as an instant release, or distraction from the unbearableness of sitting with myself in silence. The chatter in my head is so intense and cruel and relentless that the only thing that could silence it for 2 minutes was the most intense form of stimulation that exists... but I have been working on that... thanks to you all. Slowly seeing succes from the inside out

Re: just joined 12 Feb 2021 05:43 #363217

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Nu?!
Dude u can’t disappear for a month. 
Share with us ur ups and downs, cmon man! Don’t be scared, we are one family.
Come back
Last Edit: 12 Feb 2021 05:45 by yeshivaguy.

Re: just joined 07 Apr 2021 16:42 #366476

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I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
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