Hi all,

I am brand new here. I can't believe that I am here. Anyway, before I even start looking around I want to know if anybody knows of a filter for blackberries? Please respond to this post if you do.

Thanks

Hi and WELCOME!  You have come to the right place.  I'm not knowledgable in that area, but there are people here who are. 

Why don't you tell us some more about yourself?  I assume you came here because you are having lust related problems?

Hey Lefko,

Sorry I dont have much info about it- I do know its discussed on the site. I believe jnet has a good service for blackberry filters. Anyway, Welcome aboard..

Welcome to our community, you have finally come home!

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In the last couple of years, the GYE network has helped roughly 1,000 Jews get back on a path of sanity, self-control and healing and has touched the lives of thousands more. GYE has become known throughout the Jewish world as the number one address for dealing with these challenges which have reached epidemic proportions. 

The tools of our recovery program were developed with guidance from the best experts in the field, such as Rabbi Dr. Avraham J. Twerski, and through the personal experience of hundreds of Jews who successfully broke free. We use a unique approach that recognizes that there are many different levels in these struggles.

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As of now the only options i know for filtering a blackberry are: by the phone being connected to a server (enterprise account) or filtering by the ISP level.

Check out www.JNetMobile.com

Good luck

I have a balckberry and had to look into this as well.

There is software called PhoneSheriff - www.phonesheriff.com  that blocks specific websites and phone numbers on blackberry, but not latest version (as of a few months ago).  My BB is about 2 years old so that was fine for my phone.  I'm pretty sure that it doesn't filter out entire categories, but let's you enter specific website and phone numbers that will remain blocked.  It uses a simple 5 digit password  - so I had someone just enter a password for me that I do not know.  no need for me ever to see those websites again or call those numbers.

So if you can select some specific sites and number to block - this might be a good alternative.

A possible better solution is to ask your service provider - i.e.  T-Mobile, Verizon -  and i think they can usually block porn and adult websites from their end.  My BB is work supplied, and thus controlled by admin at my work - I choose not to get them involved.

Hope that helps. Great to block out the shmutz!

Be matzliach

Have2changeNOW

More on blackberries - saw this under the news section of GYE website homepage:


We have already received about 25-30 requests so far for the deletebrowser program to help people delete the browser on their Blackberry. (Send an e-mail to:  deletebrowser@gmail.com and you will get back a free program that eliminates the internet browser from your Blackberry. E-mails and all other applications will continue to function normally.)

Also, our filter Gabai says he never had such volume of requests for help! (The “Filter Gabai” can hold the password for you so you won’t be tempted to turn off the filter. Contact our filter gabai today at  filter.gye@gmail.com.)

hope that helps?  How have you been doing?

Have2changeNOW