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Re: diaper lover 04 Jun 2023 07:39 #396791

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einanilimili wrote on 04 Jun 2023 05:32:

No I didn't I just didn't know where to start from
thanks for the advice
but I still want to talk to someone that got out of it

I got out of other unhealthy addictive behaviors. You are welcome to PM or email me. If you decide to look for a therapist you can call the organization Relief and ask them to recommend a sex addiction therapist that can deal with sexual fetishes.

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Re: diaper lover 04 Jun 2023 17:15 #396814

david.e123 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 4	Hi, I know exactly what you feel like, I've been dealing with this since I'm a young kid... I didn't get specific help on this site but I was helped some what in this area..

Re: diaper lover 12 Jun 2023 09:51 #397342

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I have Baruch Hashem been helped in this as well. I'm not usually on the forum so please reach out by PM or email (in my signature)
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Re: diaper lover 02 Jul 2023 13:46 #398298

heiligeyid12 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 1 Karma: 0	Hi I'm also struggling with this specific fetish. It feels so good to know that i'm not alone.

Re: diaper lover 02 Jul 2023 20:34 #398304

villzeinheilig! OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 2 Karma: 1	Thank you all for sharing! I relate to this particular as well as many other fetishes. Looking forward to the helpful comments.

Re: diaper lover 04 Jul 2023 18:32 #398375

david.e123 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 4	Yes, There are many that came out recently saying they struggle with this.. With the right help you can maneuver this to a better place.

Re: diaper lover 04 Jul 2023 18:51 #398377

david.e123 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 4	GYE at one point was trying to put together a group for us holy people dealing with this difficult ניסיון guardyoureyes.com/forum/5-Announcements/352169-Anyone-struggling-with-ABDL

Re: diaper lover 04 Jul 2023 18:54 #398378

einanilimili Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 24 Karma: 4	david.e123 wrote on 04 Jul 2023 18:51: GYE at one point was trying to put together a group for us holy people dealing with this difficult ניסיון guardyoureyes.com/forum/5-Announcements/352169-Anyone-struggling-with-ABDL I wish

Re: diaper lover 25 Jan 2024 20:10 #407596

einanilimili Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 24 Karma: 4	Update: I'm b"h in therapy for the last 6 months or so and I can see some progress By saying progres i mean to say that they identifyed my issue is because of being insecure I'm now in the process of getting my body calm to be on a stable position and to be open not isolated

Re: diaper lover 23 Sep 2024 12:12 #422124

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einanilimili wrote on 25 Jan 2024 20:10:

Update: I'm b"h in therapy for the last 6 months or so and I can see some progress

By saying progres i mean to say that they identifyed my issue is because of being insecure

I'm now in the process of getting my body calm to be on a stable position and to be open not isolated

Update: I'm b"h much calmer then 8 monts ago when I posted the post I'm quoting now and I loosed alot of me ABDL needs. I still have alot of work on past trauma and to stay clean of measturbating which im now about 260 days clean of it and on ABDL its self

My holy brother, if you struggle with this too just know there are help for it and you don't need to be ashamed of something thats not your fault at all. Hasham loves you he gave you this nisyoines and he still holds your hend and he will show you your way how to deal with it

Last Edit: 25 Sep 2024 11:50 by einanilimili.

Re: diaper lover 23 Sep 2024 20:48 #422183

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Welcome back, I haven't been active here for a very long time.
Was very much dealing with my struggles and like you said @einanilimili I have been doing the same, although I'm not yet fully in a good place I've come to accept this and learnt alot about myself which I never knew how to do.
This specific Journey can be very lonely since its not from the most typical nisyones that people have, so first thing is learning to accept it and realize that this is your struggle in life and If Hashem gave it to you its meant for you to get to a better place through it, I don't think our goal is to be perfect I think its more of about getting back up and not allowing ourselves to stay down.
And to all of you on this forum and anyone that comes across this just give yourself the space to cry it out if your able to and want to and know that there is something behind it that caused you to become ABDL whether its trauma or abuse ETC. and be accepting about this nisoyen accepting the situation can be half of the nechama.

Thinking of you all Holy brothers.
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Re: diaper lover 24 Sep 2024 11:26 #422207

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david.e123 wrote on 23 Sep 2024 20:48:

Welcome back, I haven't been active here for a very long time.
Was very much dealing with my struggles and like you said @einanilimili I have been doing the same, although I'm not yet fully in a good place I've come to accept this and learnt alot about myself which I never knew how to do.
This specific Journey can be very lonely since its not from the most typical nisyones that people have, so first thing is learning to accept it and realize that this is your struggle in life and If Hashem gave it to you its meant for you to get to a better place through it, I don't think our goal is to be perfect I think its more of about getting back up and not allowing ourselves to stay down.
And to all of you on this forum and anyone that comes across this just give yourself the space to cry it out if your able to and want to and know that there is something behind it that caused you to become ABDL whether its trauma or abuse ETC. and be accepting about this nisoyen accepting the situation can be half of the nechama.

Thinking of you all Holy brothers.
DAVID.e123

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Re: diaper lover 24 Sep 2024 17:54 #422241

david.e123 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 4	How is it not lonely, speaking to people over some blocked computer and not having a caring and understanding conversation can be lonely. If you find it not being lonely then I'm happy for you, but I've spoken to a nice couple of guys that feel this way. And I B"H have a full support team helping me with this but I was talking in general about people here feeling lonely. Hope that clarifies.

Re: diaper lover 24 Sep 2024 18:20 #422242

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david.e123 wrote on 24 Sep 2024 17:54:

How is it not lonely, speaking to people over some blocked computer and not having a caring and understanding conversation can be lonely.
If you find it not being lonely then I'm happy for you, but I've spoken to a nice couple of guys that feel this way.
And I B"H have a full support team helping me with this but I was talking in general about people here feeling lonely.
Hope that clarifies.

Plenty of people are speaking over a not blocked computer...

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Re: diaper lover 25 Sep 2024 03:27 #422288

strugglingwiththeunusual OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 5	No, NOT "why be lonely?". I'm with David.e123 on this. We're the weird corner on GYE, it IS very lonely that there are like 5 of us in this topic and we'd never be accepted by the broader GYE group so we hide and don't say a word to the members of the mainstream GYE members for fear of being dismissed.