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Re: Personal recovery plan 04 Nov 2011 21:40 #124338

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	ZemirosShabbos wrote on 03 Nov 2011 14:24: p.s. did anyone tell you that you are supposed to wear a spudik on day #91 in recognition of the milestone? No, my shvigger is holding the spudik, and won't let me have it...oh, well, I'll just stick to the fedora...
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 06 Nov 2011 15:20 #124403

Jackabbey Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 835 Karma: 0	why not offer her a ride in your monsteh truck?
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Re: Personal recovery plan 08 Nov 2011 05:44 #124774

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	I really liked this thread...do I really have to let go.......and let G-d?
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 04 Jan 2012 23:13 #130079

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I was re-reading this thread yesterday and today, looking for some info...and I really did like it!
Just an update: I am still (now 154 days) sober from sex with self, watching porn, and intentional fantasizing.
I have a kitchen going here and another thread journaling my recovery here.
I have enrolled in SA and attend meetings regularly, 3-4 times a week.
I just did the reading of my first step to our group (about two dozen people with different sobriety lengths). For the unaffiliated it means I wrote about 7 pages of my sexual acting out history, and then read it to the group, admitting my powerlessness over the crazy things I confessed to have done.
It was nerve-racking but I got good support and feedback, and I am ready to move forward.
Happy new year to all.

Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.

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Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Jan 2012 00:41 #130090

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	Ashrecha, chabibi. Continued hatzlocha, always.
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Jan 2012 00:52 #130093

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	Thanks! If you have aany interest I can let you read it, too, although for myself, I already got it off my chest.
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Jan 2012 03:55 #130103

1daat Current streak: 126 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 713 Karma: 4	Wow! really nice. really nice. Hashem chapt major nachus.
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Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Jan 2012 07:15 #130109

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	I hope He does, b/c that would be nice
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Jan 2012 09:43 #130111

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	Now all that really matters is what you do about good living today....just like the day before your 1st step share. You will be matzliach. KOT (keep on truckin')
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Jan 2012 15:35 #130128

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	AWESOME... er I Mean GEVALDIGGGGG OM! KUTGW! KOT!
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Re: Personal recovery plan 24 Jan 2012 23:24 #131633

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	With G-d's Help, meetings, phonecalls, and good nutrition I am 174 days clean. Now, 6 Jewish months will be on Shvat 3 (which is Jan. 27), 180 days will be on Jan. 30, and 6 regular months will be on Feb. 3. Which date do I celebrate?
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 24 Jan 2012 23:55 #131635

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	"A very big segulah for staying sober, is leaving all thinking and discussion about anniversaries to the day of the anniversary itself. Even the day before it is not the right time to discuss or plan anything." - Ta'amei te'ehorim
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 24 Jan 2012 23:58 #131637

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	Point taken. But when is the anniversary is the question, not what to do on this day when and if it comes.
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 25 Jan 2012 00:26 #131640

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obormottel wrote on 24 Jan 2012 23:24:

With G-d's Help, meetings, phonecalls, and good nutrition I am 174 days clean.
Now, 6 Jewish months will be on Shvat 3 (which is Jan. 27), 180 days will be on Jan. 30, and 6 regular months will be on Feb. 3.
Which date do I celebrate?

All three. I would say being alive and sober is cause for celebration. ~~(Unless of course all you have to eat is some buckwheat stew).~~ Fine I wont go there. Continued Hatzlacha

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Re: Personal recovery plan 25 Jan 2012 00:34 #131641

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ur-a-jew wrote on 25 Jan 2012 00:26:

obormottel wrote on 24 Jan 2012 23:24:

All three. I would say being alive and sober is cause for celebration. ~~(Unless of course all you have to eat is some buckwheat stew).~~ Fine I wont go there. Continued Hatzlacha

And the days in between. Mishteh Shivas Yomim!

hatzlacha and KOMT!!!!

Gevura!

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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