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Re: HELP-SOS 02 May 2011 15:51 #104893

me3 Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1229 Karma: 9	I think you're thinking too hard about not thinking.
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Re: HELP-SOS 02 May 2011 15:59 #104895

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	well, as long as he's not thinking about green elephants...
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: HELP-SOS 02 May 2011 20:11 #104927

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Read through these last three pages and frankly my head is spinning, I can only imagine what's going on in your head. Some suggestions or observations:

1. tzaddik90/Special Weapons And Tactics wrote on 02 May 2011 07:35:

(it's miller time)

This was going to be my suggestion. Apropo of an earlier post, this is pashtus at it best, living at its best, and while I have no qualifications to make this statement, I have no hesitation in saying that every word of Rav Miller's is al pi kabbalah.

2. tzaddik90/Special Weapons And Tactics wrote on 02 May 2011 14:02:

so wife and i planned this special trip, the type you take twice a year maybe, or once. and then before we were gonna pack up she tells me she is depressed, and house is a mess, she keeps cleaning it and it just gets bigger mess like in uncle moishe (played by metallica) so i used to try to control situation by GETTING her to be undepressed and go anyways, a deadly disaster so now, in my program, i just surrender god wanted this to occur and i got the ''heck out of his way'' so i did nothing but ask if i could help

This is it, right here: "so i did nothing but ask if i could help." Never really learned kabbalah but that statement seems like TIFERES to me.

3. tzaddik90/Special Weapons And Tactics wrote on 29 Apr 2011 14:19:

forget if you know that your sefirah of tifferess looks green and sickly

tzaddik90/Special Weapons And Tactics wrote on 27 Apr 2011 10:11:

you had gotten so angry because of your ego, that you had been pogeim your kesser; because kesser is ain, and you asserted yourself as ani, the same letters. since kesser feeds the kav emtza-ee, your tiferess died, and you could no longer gain tools from the torah . . . furthermore, down the kav, your da'as became pogeim too as a result so whatever torah you already had studied could not help you since you lacked your own kli of da-as application.

This is like a brocha in disguise since now you get to learn torah lishma.

Continued hatzlacha

Help free Sholom Rubashkin by giving him the zechus of Shemiras Eiynayim. www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=2809.0

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Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 01:26 #104947

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i always wondered who is this shalom rubashkin? the jewish version of the oscar meyer weiner truck?

me3, where are you.....you are right. you have a good eye.

experiencing bad withdrawal now, and hearing the arabs daven outside my house here at 4am

dov, it was hard to smile today-ifelt i had a grand piano up my nose
i tried to be happy, funny......twas a lost cause

house is cleaner, wife wants to go tomorrow

durdaya, you may be my only connection to gye while i go to mitzpeh ramon-if our kosher phones even go that far

ouch withdrawal, it feels like you were riding on a houre and your horse suddenly was lassoed and yanked from under you, and you went flying and landed on your head in a pile of large rocks
im reaching out-
anyone here know this?

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Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 03:36 #104974

ur-a-jew Current streak: 1087 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1717 Karma: 70	"the oscar meyer whiner truck". So long as you keep on trucking it don't matter what kind of truck you drive.
	Help free Sholom Rubashkin by giving him the zechus of Shemiras Eiynayim. www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=2809.0 Last Edit: by .

Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 05:08 #104978

tzaddik90 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 668 Karma: 1	IVE REACHED THE LAST STOP
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Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 10:21 #104991

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	tzaddik90/Special Weapons And Tactics wrote on 03 May 2011 01:26: durdaya, you may be my only connection to gye while i go to mitzpeh ramon-if our kosher phones even go that far Are we forgetting someone? Blind Beggar 052 765 5555 This is not my real number. 052 76...... is a kosher phone. John Doe's phone number is +1 718 555 5555.
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines? Last Edit: 03 May 2011 16:51 by .

Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 10:55 #104993

ben durdayah Current streak: 49 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder No, that is not a mouse... Posts: 1253 Karma: 5	See, and here I thought that the old saying that even the beggars in Israel have cellphones is just a joke... E
	For Dov and the other two guys who care, My real name really is Eli Like the original Bendy, Ein hadavar talui ela bee Last Edit: by .

Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 14:12 #105004

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	where i grew up the last stop was Coney Island
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 16:15 #105018

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 13	ben durdayah wrote on 03 May 2011 10:55: See, and here I thought that the old saying that even the beggars in Israel have cellphones is just a joke... E LOL
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by .

Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 17:57 #105036

ben durdayah Current streak: 49 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder No, that is not a mouse... Posts: 1253 Karma: 5	7Up wrote on 03 May 2011 16:15: ben durdayah wrote on 03 May 2011 10:55: See, and here I thought that the old saying that even the beggars in Israel have cellphones is just a joke... E LOL Thanks, at least somebody got the joke. Although by now, even the American beggars have blackberries...
	For Dov and the other two guys who care, My real name really is Eli Like the original Bendy, Ein hadavar talui ela bee Last Edit: by .

Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 18:03 #105038

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	What's a Blackberry?
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines? Last Edit: by .

Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 18:07 #105040

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	Blind Beggar wrote on 03 May 2011 18:03: What's a Blackberry? Attachments: 220px-Ripe...ries.jpg (13KB) 220px-Ripe...pg_thumb (40KB)
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: HELP-SOS 03 May 2011 18:28 #105043

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 13	Blind Beggar wrote on 03 May 2011 18:03: What's a Blackberry? Type of fruit.
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by .