wow i leave for a couple hours and my thread is so full

i dont mean to contradict the heilege guard but i must say that i do not fuilly agree wih his statement.
our generation has mastered the external actions.we can do anything without letting it affect our inside.been there,done that.

I will be leaving yeshiva for a bit.More details to follow.I am going to be involved iy'h in several chessed organizations for a while then i will decide my next move.the january semester is still a while off.

And shmilu,welcome to my thread tzaddik thanks for the advice

btw that reminds me.
for all the newbies on my thread,have you voted on the above poll??
were trying to collect 100,000 votes,so please vote YES to chulent.
thank you
uri

HEY URI
I KNOW YOU WILL CALL ME NAMES

TOO BAD ON  ON ME

NOT IMPRESSED  :'(

SORRY JUST TRYING TO KEEP THIS FORUM A BIT "CLASSY"

WE ALL HERE HAVE BEEN ABLE TO EPRESS OUR FEELINGS

WITHOUT TALKING SO BLUNT

SORRY AGAIN

I MIGHT BE FROM AN OLDER GENERATION (15 YEAR DIFF.) SP MAYBE I AM NUTS

I STILL LOVE YOU
b

k i modified my post

such a tzaddik'l uri

no youre the tzaddik'le mamesh gevaldigge heilege yiddele struggle
voos machte yid?

I saw the post... Women tend to desire the emotional lust, while men are more effected by what they see. That's just in general. That's why women tend more to SLAA while men end more to SA groups. But a man who is missing a lot of the emotional part of relationships due to a difficult upbringing, may also tend more to the SLAA... Many of the groups are mixed. It's not black and white for anyone.

As far as Yeshiva goes, why not join a Yeshiva that goes easier on the learning and spends time on hiking, touring and activities as well... It's not all or nothing. EVER. Remember that.

Uri wrote on 01 Sep 2009 19:52:


bsiyata dishmaya the internet is crashing down,
gmail is failing, skype is... working?!

I know, I can't access gmail. What's going on??? I have an important e-mail there from Mr. B that I saw only the title, but it won't let me open it.

What Mr. B? You say "never mind"? Oh, ok.

you're leaving yeshiva?  

Uri wrote on 01 Sep 2009 19:19:

you are right. people can go through their routine, smile, and laugh, and then go home and watch ten hours of p***. those people were acting normal because they didn't want anyone to suspect them. if you act normal because you want to be normal, because you want to get to the point where you are normal, well, that's entirely different. and that CAN lead to a change in your thought process. and when i say normal, i really just mean lust-free. sorry.

guardureyes wrote on 01 Sep 2009 19:54:


such an emes. so hard to grasp and internalize...

guardureyes wrote on 01 Sep 2009 19:54:

i am most definetly not not stoping my learning.chas veshalom!i cant imagine what my life would be without torah oy!Just i will not be in yeshiva full time.

Uri wrote on 01 Sep 2009 19:19:
agreed

I am the same. When I act out, it's stories/books/movies/voices, and then comes lots of other stuff. (It helps me a ton to detail all the "other stuff" but that's not appropriate for this venue. I generally reserve that davka for face 2 face and at meetings...) 

I guess you agreed with what I posted above, then. You are not offerring any solution, though, just stating the problem. I was very lucky: my addiction forced me directly to the soultion (after 15 years!) . Hey nice typo: soulution!

Hatzlocha Rabba in whatever you do. Hashem is with you. Maybe it's what you need but it seems you are taking action (chesed) rather than sticking with cerebralism (as many of us end up unfortunately doing in yeshiva), as Guard suggested, after all. But there is no geographic solution, you know...
Love,
Dov

URI YOU ARE GEVALDIGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG




NOW COME JOIN US FOR MINCHA

MAYBE YOU "GEI TZEEE" TO THE AMUD

b

dov wrote on 01 Sep 2009 20:07:

hey i took that line out!why are u guys beating up on me
being a thinker might not be best for me right now.im gonna try to be a doer for the next bit