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TOPIC: Where I'm at 43984 Views

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:23 #12191

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 384	As long as the chulent is wearing clothes, I'm OK w/it, too! ;D ;D
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by striveforgreatness.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:24 #12192

Efshar Letaken Current streak: 194 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 850 Karma: 3	I love this poll much more.
	Last Edit: by Pesachim.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:24 #12193

battleworn

why am i posting this?heaven knows.cause i dont.what kind of 20 year old boy hesitates on an oppurtunity like this?am i gay?

We know! Because you know in your mind that turning down the invitation was a monumental accomplishment that caused a tremendous commotion in shomaim.
But you're having trouble hearing the commotion and the y"h is working over-time to convince you that this is something small. (And only when he manages to catch you at a weak moment and trick you in to sinning against your will, that's a big deal. What twisted logic!)

So Hashem in His Great Mercy gave you the seichal to tell us about it so that we can help you remember that YOU ARE SHAKING THE HEAVENS AND BRINGING THE GE'ULAH! HKB'H IS TELLING THE MALACHIM "CHAZU BNI CHAVIVI THAT IS GOING TOTALY AGAINST THE DERECH HATEVA AND THE DERECH HA'OLAM, LOOK AT THE POWER OF A YIDDISHE NESHOMOH." THE KIDDUSH HASHEM THAT YOU ARE MAKING IS WITHOUT COMPARISON! THIS IS THE GREATEST FULFILLMENT OF TACHLIS HABRIAH!

And by the way I can't imagine myself -when I was at your stage of the game, standing up to such a test; it would have been totally hopeless.

CHAZAK VE'EMATZ! And I have to say it again: Your songs are awesome beyond description!

Last Edit: by ariski.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:25 #12194

Efshar Letaken Current streak: 194 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 850 Karma: 3	wow! Reb Ber=Dov Now Reb B. really rubbed off on you. Very funny! lol
	Last Edit: by yidstruggler18.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:25 #12195

bardichev	sexually frustrating religion??? THAT IS WORSE THAN NOT EATING CHOLENT TZADDIK WITH A DEEP NESHAMA THE TORAH AS HARD AS IT IS YES IT IS MEANT TO BE HARD IS DIBRA TORAH "KINEEGGGED YH" IT IS NOT EASY NO WAY AND I WILL NOT JUDGE YOU FOR A SECOND AND EVEN IF I DID IT WILL BE LKAFFFFF ZECHUSSS 1000000% WITH ALL THE LOVE IN THE WORLD AND A TRANSATLANTIC BEAR (AND BEER ) HUG!!! bardichev
	Last Edit: 13 Aug 2009 21:52 by QX.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:27 #12197

bardichev	DOV YOU REALLY MADE ME LAUGH!!!!!!!!!
	Last Edit: by shlepering.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:34 #12202

Efshar Letaken Current streak: 194 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 850 Karma: 3	Typical response from a teenager! Not Funny thou! E.L.
	Last Edit: by yitzel.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:35 #12204

Uri Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 7	:-[
	Last Edit: by wanting to change .

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:38 #12205

habib613

I'm glad you're still home.

I think you're being very pessimistic about marriage. would you still be the way you described after 90 days?
life is frustrating. that's what forces us to grow. We don't have to like it. in fact, i don't think anyone likes it when things don't go their way. but Hashem really does love us and wants what is best for us. in this case, Hashem wants you to gain ultimate control over yourself and so He gives you lots and lots of nisyonos so you can take them and pass. and you just did.
The Malochim are smiling down at you
and they told me to give you this
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Last Edit: by charleswerner.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:40 #12207

Uri Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 7	okay there are nisyonos and then there are NISYONOS truthfull,id rather be up on a hill shechting my only son than sitting by the computer typing while a very pretty girl has invited me to her empty house.i mamesh feel so weak and pathetic and stupid.
	Last Edit: by dhall10067.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:42 #12209

Tomim2B	Uri, don't wait for her to call! Turn your phone off now! You can always come up with an excuse once this has all passed... Why put yourself to the test? The best answer is no answer! 2B
	Last Edit: by Gitteyid.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:44 #12212

Uri Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 7	as i replied in the other thread tomim,i simply cannot do that. im only 3 days clean anyway!its not like im at 50 or something.so ill start again.so what??
	Last Edit: by anew!.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:45 #12213

bardichev	NO ONE SAID KOFER JUST COMPARING IT TO NON-CHULENT CONSUMPTION! I DON'T KNOW YOU TO TELL YOU ABOUT MARRIAGE BUT.. BUT... YOU ARE DEFINATELY MUCH TOOOO YOUNG TO STOP EATING CHULENT!!!! b
	Last Edit: by faylich613.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:45 #12214

Uri Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 7	wow thats hardcore rationalizing im impressed lol
	Last Edit: by yyp.

Re: Where I'm at 13 Aug 2009 21:46 #12215

habib613	please listen to tomim! or at least turn it on silent and hide it in the microwave or something. then at least you won't hear it ring. tzaddik'l, my heart is aching for you :'( i'm sorry if i sound like a mommy, but it's for real.
	Last Edit: by mistrom100.