:'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
jst read this . Hope ur doin ok bro.
I know. It's the most insecure feeling when parents argue/yell like that. My guys are better now, but when I remember being younger an hearing the yelling,screaming,chair throwing,glass shattering....all my insides turn over.
I'd tremble an cry of frustration, and/or be so mad I wanted to kill my mom...jst so she should shut the h up
My hearts breakin fa u. Hope you got to the wedding an are havin a good time.
Pls update us..were worried 

Rage ATM wrote on 26 Nov 2009 21:38:


Ditto.
But at least let us know youre with us?

7Up wrote on 26 Nov 2009 21:43:

Ditto
_{or me3?}

uri, if you see this, mind telling us you're alive?
we're going crazy here across the atlantic
and all we can do is email mom a million times

you're usually up by now 

Uri, please call me on my cell when you see this. Thanks

Uri, it's selfish to keep your family in suspense and worried about you  :'(. You know we'd all go into hell to pull you out if we had to.   :-\

P.S. Uri, check out today's Chizuk e-mail...

I will try to start using this thread as a place for my cheshbon hanefesh that I am doing.
I am determined to break through all the layers.
In the meanwhile,I will try to refrain from trying to convince everyone of the truth of this derech.
Any questions will be answered happily.
Emails will also be responded to,iy'h,as soon as possible.
A gut shabbos
-uri

Heh Heh. I did that for you already in yesterday's - and today's Chizuk e-mail    :D

Thanks for posting. We were all very worried.
We hope you survived last night without resorting to futile "control" tactics  
But whatever. Past is past.
Asher Anochi Metzavecha HAYOM.

Good Shabbos!

It's easy to limit ourselves to the lust side of our problems on this forum.

But, if we're struggling with lust, we're probably struggling with other things too.

This family stuff really ought to be worked out.

Maybe start an additional thread here for the issue.  Might help to keep things straight and sort things out. 

  --Eye.

hello, bro.

hope your smiling today

letakain21

Free self-help support groups will be opening (in Israel) for men and women separately, under the guidance of Reb Shraga Shlachter, for singles as well as for couples - who either they or their spouse, are struggling with problems of control, confidence and trust - which are often expressed through fears, various addictions, compulsive behaviors, obsessions, and/or social isolation.

The groups will be starting around Chanukah Time, and will meet at the French Hill in Jerusalem. The men's group will meet Sunday evenings at 8:15 PM, and the women's group will meet on Wednesday mornings at 10:00 AM. (The groups will also help couples strengthen trust in their marriage, which in turn will help the spouse who is struggling with addiction to find freedom from his/her obsessions).

For details and registration:

Men should contact Uri at anotheryid@gmail.com or at 052-7127899
(leave message if no answer).

Women should contact Rachel at 08-974-4504 or leave a message.

If there's anybody in israel and not coming to these meetings,i will hunt you down and beat you up.


No really,come on guys!We need more people and this would do all of us here so much good!
Come on!Be brave!

Uri - Instead of beating them up, maybe if they could hear testimonials from the attendees 3 mo's after starting, they'd be just plain jealous enough to get over the schlep, or the shame and join up. It sounds like a really wonderful thing you are helping to start, Uri! "Vihi noam Hashem, v'chulei...."

To all my friends here,

When I came here roughly 4 and a half months ago,I was barely a few weeks clean from girls,depressed as anything,unhappy with life,suicidal,and just unsure if I would have any future in this world.

By Hashem's grace,I was led to this site and made what was without a doubt the best discovery of my life.
A group of amazing men and women that I never would've known existed had I not had this problem.
The care for a fellow Jew....
The sympathy/empathy....
The love.....
The acceptance....

For maybe the first time in my life,I actually opened myself up to people.
I discovered a beautiful person inside.Hashem's creation.Someone with potential.
Some who's life goal is not just to "make it",but to live and share and experience.
The happiness and freedom that I feel now is something that I never knew even existed.
And it's all thanks to you guys.....
Guard
Mom
Battleworn
Sturggle
Momo

and every single person here(sorry if i dsidnt call u out specifically.those are my sponsors and partners)

I am now 6 months clean from any sexual activity with any girl.
For the first time since I first experienced activity at 14.
Thank you

-uri

Uri, you know that you are the one that inspires us! Keep up the good work.