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Re: Where I'm at 19 Oct 2009 23:30 #24557

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Uri,

I agree.

It's getting a bit Pathetic!

I think we should put together Rules for those in charge of making the rules as well as Editing.
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Re: Where I'm at 19 Oct 2009 23:35 #24558

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Uri and Efshar,

if it bothers u sew much when I korekt ur missssssssssppppellllllingggsss, il tri 2 leeve dem allone!  ;D
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 07:16 #24577

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Chevra,

I am taking a break from the forum.
It might be for a few days.
It might be for a week,a month,or 2 months.

Im doing this because I have become addicted to the forum. While this is better than some other addictions, I am not so happy with it. I want to try actually living life, and leave this virtual world, as beautiful and as secure as it might be.

I have no hard feelings for anybody.
Quite to the contrary, GYE saved my life, without a doubt.
I have found love and security for the first time in my life.
In the safety zone of that security, I have found a part of myself that I never knew existed.
The appreciation I have for Guard and the rest cannot be put into simple words.

I will not be signing on anymore, so PM'ing me will be futile.
I will still be periodically checking my email, so feel free to email me if you'd like.

All the best, GYE,
Uri
Last Edit: 20 Oct 2009 09:55 by Mf.

Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 09:55 #24585

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I removed this line, Uri:


Im doing this because:
1)I do not like the direction the forum has taken. I am lacking the feeling of complete freedom of expression which has been so beneficial to me.


I removed it because I don't think you should be free to express that.


Does anyone know what Uri's talking about (other than spelling mistakes)?

Anyway, we wish you luck little bird... Go out there and flap your wings. Take to flight. Feel the air flowing around you. Enjoy life.

(And if you ever need some yummy fresh worms, come back to the nest. We'll always be here for you).
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Last Edit: 20 Oct 2009 09:59 by Berel Vishel.

Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 09:57 #24586

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Oy Uri


If we get some virtual cholent, cola and chummas will you come back?
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 10:05 #24588

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Uri, I bless you to see better success in breaking free of SA than GYE 
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Last Edit: 20 Oct 2009 11:21 by Gavel.

Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 13:00 #24601

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i gotta admit, that it has annoyed me in the past when my words gets watered down through editing...i think he's feeling the same way...i mean, i understand this is a private forum and its kosher and all that but a little bit of the first amendment aint that bad....ive pmed kedusha about this problem before...whatever, guard, youve got a balancing act here to maintain, i get that....
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 14:53 #24625

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Rage AT Machine wrote on 20 Oct 2009 13:00:

i gotta admit, that it has annoyed me in the past when my words gets watered down through editing...i think he's feeling the same way...i mean, i understand this is a private forum and its kosher and all that but a little bit of the first amendment aint that bad....ive pmed kedusha about this problem before...whatever, guard, youve got a balancing act here to maintain, i get that....


Most of the changes are spelling and grammar corrections, which I assume no one minds.

Regarding other types of edits, the GYE Forum rules try to strike a balance between freedom of speech (see first sentence of rule #1), adherence to Halacha and decency, and not distracting from GYE's mission.  Complete freedom of expression may be good for the individual, but detrimental for the forum as a whole.

Uri, we wish you Beracha v'Hatzlacha!
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
Last Edit: 20 Oct 2009 14:57 by ChessGuy.

Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 15:10 #24628

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Kedusha wrote on 20 Oct 2009 14:53:



Most of the changes are spelling and grammar corrections, which I assume no one minds.

Regarding other types of edits, the GYE Forum rules try to strike a balance between freedom of speech (see first sentence of rule #1), adherence to Halacha and decency, and not distracting from GYE's mission. 


I hate to do this, but most English language authorities concur that a comma before a grammatical conjunction (Such as in your sentence above) is redundant. Please try to avoid this in future posts.
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 15:12 #24629

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Me3 wrote on 20 Oct 2009 15:10:

Kedusha wrote on 20 Oct 2009 14:53:



Most of the changes are spelling and grammar corrections, which I assume no one minds.

Regarding other types of edits, the GYE Forum rules try to strike a balance between freedom of speech (see first sentence of rule #1), adherence to Halacha and decency, and not distracting from GYE's mission. 


I hate to do this, but most English language authorities concur that a comma before a grammatical conjunction (Such as in your sentence above) is redundant. Please try to avoid this in future posts.


Eilu v'Eilu.  Anyway, I don't correct such subtle mistakes.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 15:19 #24631

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Uri

Take the break you need

but please record your meetings with your therapist because it's great benefit for us and we gain alot from it.

and then post it here when you have a chance

and for me personally it would be helpful do describe that emptiness, and the subsequent comfort and security that fills that space.

and I'm being truthful when I say that it is not mere curiosity that has me ask this of you
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 15:39 #24634

  • habib613
I'm thinking maybe I should leave myself.
you know, my two brothers left home,
and my sister's getting married.
I'm feeling the pressure to leave.
and I'm sure mom would love not having me around anymore to kvetch.
i mean seriously, why do we even need a home anymore?

this whole post was a joke. ;D ;D ;D ;D
but sturggle and uri leaving is not a joke.

what is going on here???????????????????????????????
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 15:47 #24637

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habib613 wrote on 20 Oct 2009 15:39:

I'm thinking maybe I should leave myself.
you know, my two brothers left home,
and my sister's getting married.
I'm feeling the pressure to leave.
and I'm sure mom would love not having me around anymore to kvetch.
i mean seriously, why do we even need a home anymore?

this whole post was a joke. ;D ;D ;D ;D
but sturggle and uri leaving is not a joke.

what is going on here???????????????????????????????


YOU GOT ME SOOOOOOOO SCARED HABIB! :o :o
Dont you dare leave me all alone here.
Im not ready to cut all the apron strings quite yet.
Controllling? Over-possesive? Who? Me?
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 15:51 #24639

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its like i tell my kids when they want to know why fluffy is staring at the ceiling with her mouth wide open ...eventually we all gotta go....
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Re: Where I'm at 20 Oct 2009 15:55 #24640

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Rage AT Machine wrote on 20 Oct 2009 15:51:

its like i tell my kids when they want to know why fluffy is staring at the ceiling with her mouth wide open ...eventually we all gotta go....


Is fluffy a goldfish Rage? ;D

Habib; see why you cant leave me with these non-flakes?
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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