One day free!!!!!!

Day 2?????

waydown


Sorry I had to add the bold underline, to show how insidious the YH is in creating the mindset that neshamaincharge was referring to with his suggestion.

If the suggestion of going to sleep with your wife is likely to be helpful, it would be an interesting point to ponder if HKBH prefers that over your learning, but it doesn't have to be either/or. For me, if I go to sleep earlier, I can wake up earlier, so my learning would just get rescheduled. Sometimes I learn better in the morning bc my mind is fresher.

Hope I wasn't too strong, sounded like you were looking to make changes.

Yes point well taken. I would say that it won't work so well with me since I watch the kids in the morning. But I have been thinikng about your idea and it certainlly doesn't have to be an all or nothing aprroach. On nites when my wife does go to sleep a bit later than 9, I can try to shorten my nite seder a bit and steal a little time in the morning for those situations.

I should add that it won't necessarly help me avoid Z"L. But I do agree that 1) I won't be on the internet. 2) Even if she is assur I can have a shmuzing partner while in bed. This will help me fall asleep and get my mind off the addiction.

In a nutshell, I am in no way ruling out your idea at least for some of the time.

Do you have filters or is that irrelevant to you?

Waydon I love this thread and the Disccussion.

Keep it up.

Indeed we do not rule out any thing we can do that may help us.

eslassos,

I have whatever my work provides. Its my work computer. It is a pretty good filter. the problem is it ain't fool proof. Adding stronger filters is irrealvant as its out of my control. I have no admin rights to download k-9. In a large company like mine you can't change it

I PM'ed you

waydown wrote:


Life is full of problems and all problems have solutions.
Some people spend their whole lives looking for the problems with the solutions.
And some people spend their lives looking for the solutions to the problems.