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Re: I need help 28 Aug 2014 19:06 #238179

gyegye2
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cordnoy, thank you for your chizuk

I followed the GYE in a nutshell program, till the 12 step group that I am not comfortable tot do... the thaphsic method is a very good thing for me...
getting better in better
almost 3 years here by now, I used to fall like 2 time a week easily, when I came here and saw the picture of the guy sitting buy the computer with the hands on the face " caught in the shmutz?" I said, hey that's me! I saw a link " fist time here?" and I clicked on it.... and there my recovery started. I feel just like the chizuk email that came for a few days ago that getting better is like crawling up a hole and falling down starting over end going higher then last time but falling down, I am doing this for about 3 years, and now I am up for the first time to 73 days.

Father, you are giving the chalenges - only if you fight it for us we can overcome it
If it is good it is you!
And if looks not good it is also you!
If it is you it is Good!
And if it is good it is again you!
You You You!

Last Edit: 02 Sep 2014 17:41 by gyegye2.

Re: I need help 28 Aug 2014 20:04 #238187

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If youre at day 73, keep up whatever youre doin' ....if c"v there's a break in the action, you might wanna consider gettin' out of your comfort zone.

Meanwhile, KOT!

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Re: I need help 02 Sep 2014 17:40 #238520

gyegye2 Current streak: 12 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 124 Karma: 0	thank you cordnoy day 77
	Father, you are giving the chalenges - only if you fight it for us we can overcome it If it is good it is you! And if looks not good it is also you! If it is you it is Good! And if it is good it is again you! You You You!

Re: I need help 03 Sep 2014 15:44 #238587

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My pleasure.

and let us know please any tips you might have.

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Re: I need help 03 Sep 2014 17:58 #238609

gyegye2 Current streak: 12 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 124 Karma: 0	my tip is to follow the GYE handbook... they give you step by step instructions, up to the extreme of taking medication, at some point before or after it must work
	Father, you are giving the chalenges - only if you fight it for us we can overcome it If it is good it is you! And if looks not good it is also you! If it is you it is Good! And if it is good it is again you! You You You!

Re: I need help 03 Sep 2014 18:02 #238610

gyegye2 Current streak: 12 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 124 Karma: 0	another interesting thing I saw by myself is that most of the time I was tempted towards the end of my work day when I was burned out and was looking for some excitement. so now I listen to some music or go on the following page www.aish.com/j/j/a/ for a joke or 2. and this is a good alternative for me.
	Father, you are giving the chalenges - only if you fight it for us we can overcome it If it is good it is you! And if looks not good it is also you! If it is you it is Good! And if it is good it is again you! You You You!

Re: I need help 03 Sep 2014 19:51 #238626

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Good to hear.

thanks for sharin'.

b'hatzlachah

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Re: I need help 04 Sep 2014 01:51 #238736

dms1234 Current streak: 767 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1106 Karma: 49	How about this: guardyoureyes.com/forum/23-Just-Having-Fun/21520-The-Depressed-Persons-Chill-Spot-%29 Perhaps you can add some jokes?
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Re: I need help 16 Sep 2014 19:18 #239694

gyegye2 Current streak: 12 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 124 Karma: 0	after 3 years since i got to gye after 17 pages on the forum writing my battle after many many ups and downs i reached 90 days for the first time! lechaeiyem, lechayem! i know that i cannot let the guard down, good that it is now before rosh hashana and more high days, this might help me.....
	Father, you are giving the chalenges - only if you fight it for us we can overcome it If it is good it is you! And if looks not good it is also you! If it is you it is Good! And if it is good it is again you! You You You!

Re: I need help 16 Sep 2014 19:27 #239697

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gyegye2 wrote:

after 3 years since i got to gye
after 17 pages on the forum writing my battle
after many many ups and downs
i reached 90 days for the first time!
lechaeiyem, lechayem!
i know that i cannot let the guard down, good that it is now before rosh hashana and more high days, this might help me.....

Mazel tov upon reaching and passing Tzadik days! May you be inscribed in the book of Tzadikim Gemurim.

Hatzlacha

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Re: I need help 16 Sep 2014 19:39 #239701

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Somethin' real special.

keep on postin'

you are an inspiration

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Re: I need help 16 Sep 2014 20:35 #239714

dms1234 Current streak: 767 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1106 Karma: 49	WOW! KEEP ON GOING....ONE DAY AT A TIME!
	I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor.

Re: I need help 16 Sep 2014 20:49 #239718

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KUTGW!!!

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Re: I need help 16 Sep 2014 21:00 #239721

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Re: I need help 16 Sep 2014 22:04 #239735

Pidaini OFFLINE Platinum Boarder פדני מעושק אדם-מיצר הרע העושק את הבריות-רש"י Posts: 2189 Karma: 107	WOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! How does it feel? What have you been doing to stay clean?
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