I've been toyin' with this idea for quite some time; I'm still not 100% convinced that this will be productive, but......

Seems there are some fellows that are somewhat constricted by the "rules" of the forum, or the "tone" of the forum, and they can't express themselves in the way they really want. [Maybe that's a good thin'.]

Additionally, it seems that some subjects are taboo as well, such as pfx#lk%tn and yr&as@m4i5h and #bg7-*Kl hen$%l8+msw as well (those bleepin' mods again!!).

And then there are those who wanna express their true feelin's about their spouse and partner and mother, etc., but are afraid that they (spouse, partner or mother) will be perusin' GYE and see what they wrote and figure out who loves 'em not. [So far, God has been good to me, but when that dam breaks, all HELL will break loose.]

Accordingly, the powers that be that run this madhouse (Menachem, Dovid, Chaim, Mendy, David, Mod, Yaakov - not sure if that's one fellow, two or seven) have set up for me/us a private forum thread where all HELL can and will break loose. This will not be for the faint of heart; it will probably not be inspirin', nor may it be productive, but we kinda hope that it does. There will be no rules; nothin' will be too off-color, trash talkin' will be celebrated, mud slingin' will be encouraged.

If this sounds like it's for you (then rest assured that you're a pervert, sexaholic, drunk and drugged and perhaps beyond hope), simply send me an email (thenewme613@hotmail.com) or post here, and explain why you'd like to join, and the 8 of us will decide if you fit the bill.

Oh, and finally, we do have one rule: You must be a semi-regular member of GYE in good standin', for we do not wanna dilute the forum from insightful commentary; this will be in addition to the PG threads. [Old timers who have posted in the past and wanna join might get a 30-day free trial membership.]

There is also a link to sign up to this thread, but I don't know how to activate it, paste it, or approve it; maybe one of those aforementioned tzaddikim can let us know what that is.

Might this be a lousy idea? yep!

Sent you a pm…

It is very important that everyone be able to unload. The fear all along has been that it could negatively affect others. It is wonderful that a system is being set up so those who need a place to let loose can do so safely. Thank you Cords for being the Nachshon. May you have tremendous hatzlacha assisting the probably many guys who need this outlet yet had been stifled in the past.

I am just wondering, why of all those amazing people Cordnoy was chosen to run this thing...

I would be interested in joining such a group, firstly, just to get a little more of Cordnoy would make it worth it. 

Secondly, I find the forums very often idealistic, more than practical. Lots of guys talking about the guys who they want to be but not being real about who they are.

There is lots of stupid advice, which I think is partially because guys are not honest and its hard to read between the lines (unless you've been here a while and recognize the symptoms).

Thirdly, I find that I help myself here mostly by helping others, when the reality is that I may need even more help myself. I still struggle, I may not have a long "streak" but I've been here for a while, I've been down the "long streak" road and now I am here. I don't think of myself on the same level as the guy who has been here for a few weeks and have a similar "streak" as me. Nor do I think the guy who is pushing 200 has been through what I have been through. Unfortunately, most guys like me don't hang around too much anymore. 

This sounds like it's geared towards guys who can be honest, cut the ***************'s and m************'s and say what's really going on. I don't mean all the "terrible" things that they've done   I mean being honest about their recovery. I think I can benefit from that. I can still use some help.

Fourthly, I am willing to try anything that involves @Cordnoy. 

There are more, however being that it looks like I am the only guy interested, I will save my breath (whatever is left).

Sorry Cordnoy that I didn't make bullet points, I tried but it looked all funny. 

Also, sorry that it's more than three lines, I took your lead on that one.


I have this issue, my wife was on the woman's forum and they can see much of what is posted here but thankfully she hasn't checked in a while. 

Thanks for all that you do btw.

All the best, 
Wilnevergiveup 

Can I apply for the 30 day free pass? I don't think I'm considered a semi regular anymore. Been out of things for a while.

I would like to be a part of this, mainly for these reasons listed by @WNGU:

wilnevergiveup wrote on 26 Feb 2022 18:39:

Thanks.

I have been receivin' messages here, texts, WhatsApps and emails.

H’hey can I join too?

Do you need my SSN

Hey.... if all my old friends and favorite posters will start again posting there, you gotta count me in... I promise to curse alot if that's what's needed... 

Off to a good start! 16 members, 4/5 threads, and folks postin’ here as well.

And here I just cleaned up my language…

I think this is an amazing idea.
I am sorely tempted to request access,however for me personally I think I would be joining for all the wrong reasons.

cordnoy wrote on 24 Feb 2022 18:53:

First time logged in for a while. Sounds good - now I get it. 

wilnevergiveup wrote on 26 Feb 2022 18:39:

All agreed.

Cordnoy - can we do it as whatsapp group so i don't have to log in?

Sorry to be lazy.

bego wrote on 09 Mar 2022 12:30:

Problem with WhatsApp is that many wanna stay anonymous. Additionally, the phones off some folks are reshus harabim. Thank God there is no eiruv between my bed and my wife's and it is past the techum. She observes Shabbos all week except for the onah part.