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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Starting fresh 23 Jul 2025 21:51 #439338

homerun20 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 8 Karma: 1	Hey all. I’ve been on this program on and off for a few years already. BH I’ve been able to reach 90 days multiple times and over 50 many more. But I’ve never gotten much further. I tried and tried again but keep getting sucked back into the old bad habits. So, today is day 1. A new, fresh start.

Re: Starting fresh 23 Jul 2025 21:59 #439339

hashemisonmyside Current streak: 156 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 68 Karma: 3	the fresh start should be with loads of Hatzlocha..... do you have a mentor helping you overcome those urges?
	Feel free to reach out abe.k1234@gmail.com or text 347-841-6794 (Google Voice) Great free resources: My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation">guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Re: Starting fresh 24 Jul 2025 03:12 #439344

lamaazavtuni Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 311 Karma: 12	Hey brother!! How bout posting daily so we could give you chizuk in the form of thank you's!!! Wtvr it is just keep trucking
	Lifes short.... cover ground before ground covers you

Re: Starting fresh 24 Jul 2025 06:06 #439352

goldwings
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welcome on board

I guess now we're in it for the home run!
if your on it for a few years, you're probably ready for a mentor and that will likely be a game changer for you, as it was for me and many of our friends around here.
Hatzlacha rabah on your new journey!

"תנה בני לבך לי ועיניך דרכי תצורנה" (משלי כ''ג כ''ו)
אמר ר' יצחק, אמר הקב''ה אי יהבית לי לבך ועיניך אנא ידעית דאנת הוא לי (ירושלמי)

One night in the House of Commons, Churchill, after downing a few drinks, stumbled into Bessie Braddock, a Labourite member from Liverpool.
An angry Bessie straightened her clothes and addressed the British statesman.
“Winston,” she roared. “You are drunk, and what’s more, you are disgustingly drunk.”
Churchill, surveying Bessie, replied,
“And might I say, Mrs. Braddock, you are ugly, and what’s more, disgustingly ugly.-But tomorrow,” Churchill added, “I shall be sober.”

Re: Starting fresh 24 Jul 2025 12:25 #439359

captain
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It's amazing that you have the courage to take this on. I wanted to add that you are much more likely to succeed if you don't just seek to avoid negative for 90 days, but rather also do something positive to strengthen yourself each day for 90 days in a row. This will especially help you with your goal, to be free beyond 90 days, because it will make a change in yourself.Some good ideas are below in my signature.

In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something very small (recently updated and PDF available):
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

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