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Let’s give it a shot
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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!
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Re: Let’s give it a shot 02 Jul 2025 23:00 #438361

  • cleanmendy
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sytv2002 wrote on 02 Jul 2025 18:45:
Day 0. Ughh. Starting something new. I can’t beat M right now. But I could beat P. I know I can. 90 days clean of P(and then forever) starts now. 
day 0 clean

Yes you can!!

I have an idea though, what about clean for a week from Porn.
At the end of a week throw yourself a party! 
Yes, you'll get to 90 days, but its so important to reward yourself for the 'smaller' accomplishments

Keep it up!!

Re: Let’s give it a shot 03 Jul 2025 00:59 #438369

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Hey sytv2002! kudos on your determination to restart! Just saying in my experience it can be helpful to feel like your fighting along with someone else. Therefore I'm letting you know that I'm also recovering from a fall a few days ago. So I'm inviting you to "join me" in the struggle as we both get back up together! Just thought it might help to know there's someone out there holding in the same position as you. Lets fight the good fight!
"Damn the torpedoes full speed ahead!"- David Farragut, admiral, United states navy (during  the civil war)

Re: Let’s give it a shot 03 Jul 2025 17:45 #438406

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Day 1 clean. 

Mendy I will definitely try for a week. Except I’m not good at rewarding myself.

JWBF, I’d love to be in touch!

Re: Let’s give it a shot 04 Jul 2025 20:27 #438468

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Day 2 clean 

Re: Let’s give it a shot 07 Jul 2025 14:39 #438524

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Day 1 clean… yesterday was a fall but a very small one. I did struggle for a long time and then ultimately gave in and started to watch but I stopped myself immediately. I watched maybe less than a minute. Focusing on the fact that I was able to fight and never gave in to indulge

Re: Let’s give it a shot 07 Jul 2025 17:16 #438535

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that's HUGE, stopping like that just pushed the YH down a mountain.... just keep it up... don't consider that a fall
Feel free to reach out abe.k1234@gmail.com

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Re: Let’s give it a shot 08 Jul 2025 16:56 #438582

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Day 3 clean… if I’m not counting the last one I guess it’s day 6 then… from p

Re: Let’s give it a shot 08 Jul 2025 18:57 #438594

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sytv2002 wrote on 08 Jul 2025 16:56:
Day 3 clean… if I’m not counting the last one I guess it’s day 6 then… from p

Hi sytv2002,

I log on from time to time, and I'm reading some of your recent posts.

1- Congratulations on your commitment to check in every day for 90 days straight, and for you honestly.
Its much more exciting to share after 90 days that you are clean/sober for 80 Days, than share your honest struggles.

2- My experience when i started my journey was very similar, i would checkin each day with the same post " Today is day 26 and were going to do it " ..... " Today is day 27 ..... "

I remember someone making a comment saying that I keep posting the same cliché  posts everyday ( Which of course hurt me). But honestly this is was got me sober. Honesty is the key.

I got  a sponsor on GYE, who recomened me to the 12 step conference calls, and eventually I went to SA. 

I'm grateful to Hashem and GYE that I'm sober today.
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