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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!
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Re: Just starting out 06 Jun 2025 02:56 #436984

  • balancedfox70
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Gonna be out and about again soon.

Please Hashem give me the strength I need in order to remain pure and to do Your will wholeheartedly.

Have a wonderful Shabbos!
"Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery,
Today is a gift,
That's why they call it the present"
#ODAAT!

Here are my threads:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/433015-Just-starting-out

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/433933-Tired-Wife

Feel free to reach out.
My email address is: balancedfox70@gmail.com
Last Edit: 06 Jun 2025 02:58 by balancedfox70.

Re: Just starting out 20 Jun 2025 02:01 #437669

  • balancedfox70
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Made it to Day 90!!!!! Thank you Hashem!

I wanna take this opportunity to openly thank all those that have been a part in helping me achieve this tremendous milestone. Starting with my dear wife who has been at my side through thick and thin and always has my back in full support of this holy work.

There are not enough adjectives to describe all that I have learned from Moreinu Harav HHM Shlita. You have been a beacon of light in guiding me through these complex waters! 

Special shout out to @BenHashemBH! Your words of wisdom and advice were always on target and impactful in a very big way!

I can go on and on with this as I have gained so much from all of you, that is, the (hidden) Tzadikim that are on this forum in the short time that I have been here.

Of course it's not all about doing the 90 challenge, it's about changing oneself to become a bigger and greater person but I feel that now is a good time to celebrate as we reach this milestone.

L'chayim!
"Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery,
Today is a gift,
That's why they call it the present"
#ODAAT!

Here are my threads:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/433015-Just-starting-out

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/433933-Tired-Wife

Feel free to reach out.
My email address is: balancedfox70@gmail.com
Last Edit: 20 Jun 2025 12:55 by balancedfox70.

Re: Just starting out 27 Jun 2025 17:57 #438048

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100 Days clean!

Have a wonderful Shabbos everybody!
"Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery,
Today is a gift,
That's why they call it the present"
#ODAAT!

Here are my threads:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/433015-Just-starting-out

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/433933-Tired-Wife

Feel free to reach out.
My email address is: balancedfox70@gmail.com

Re: Just starting out 17 Jul 2025 01:44 #439048

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120 Days Clean!

Summer Bein Hazmanim, ready or not here we go!!!
"Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery,
Today is a gift,
That's why they call it the present"
#ODAAT!

Here are my threads:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/433015-Just-starting-out

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/433933-Tired-Wife

Feel free to reach out.
My email address is: balancedfox70@gmail.com

Re: Just starting out 20 Jul 2025 18:14 #439171

balancedfox70 wrote on 17 Jul 2025 01:44:
120 Days Clean!

Wow!!! Keep it up!

Summer Bein Hazmanim, ready or not here we go!!!


Love the positive attitude!

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Just starting out 06 Aug 2025 21:45 #440040

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140 Days clean!
"Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery,
Today is a gift,
That's why they call it the present"
#ODAAT!

Here are my threads:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/433015-Just-starting-out

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/433933-Tired-Wife

Feel free to reach out.
My email address is: balancedfox70@gmail.com

Re: Just starting out 17 Aug 2025 05:50 #440433

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150 Days clean!!

Has been a challenging Bein Hazmanim but Bh still holding strong.

Going to be out on vacation this week. Time to really dig in!!
"Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery,
Today is a gift,
That's why they call it the present"
#ODAAT!

Here are my threads:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/433015-Just-starting-out

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/433933-Tired-Wife

Feel free to reach out.
My email address is: balancedfox70@gmail.com

Re: Just starting out 17 Aug 2025 15:13 #440439

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Wow 5 months is HUGE!!!!!
Feel free to reach out abe.k1234@gmail.com or text 347-841-6794 (Google Voice)



Great free resources:

My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation">guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Re: Just starting out 27 Aug 2025 00:47 #440877

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160 Days clean!

Was in a high risk place today. Instead of throwing in the towel and giving up, I kept my head down most of the time only looking up slightly from time to time just to see where I was going. Felt like such a winner! It was tremendous!!! 

Shout out to my accountability partners! You give me such chizuk and strength when I need it most.

And thank you to all you wonderful and holy people here on Gye who I always feel are fighting alongside me and helping me throughout my journey!
"Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery,
Today is a gift,
That's why they call it the present"
#ODAAT!

Here are my threads:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/433015-Just-starting-out

guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/433933-Tired-Wife

Feel free to reach out.
My email address is: balancedfox70@gmail.com
Last Edit: 27 Aug 2025 00:48 by balancedfox70.

Re: Just starting out 27 Aug 2025 04:09 #440882

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Reb Fox,
You are putting in the work and it is wonderful to see you soaring BH. Keep it up Brother!

Kol tov
Today is yesterday's tomorrow.
The yetzarim a person has the most trouble dealing with are his most powerful God-given tools for developing his potential and achieving shleimus.
It doesn't matter how big the number is, only that today it is going up by one.
There is no "just" when it comes to lust.

Please feel free to reach out. I'd appreciate connecting with you via GYE, Gmail (same as my username), or phone - whatever floats your boat.
A little about me: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/412971-I-Want-to-Help-Others
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