שבע יפול צדיק וקם wrote on 25 Jun 2024 14:05:
Hello, all. I was thinking about the following yesterday. I don't have any desire or urge to look at pornography or touch myself. Just none. I don't even think about it. And that's the most uncomfortable part of it all. It only takes one moment for all of that to change.
Sticking to my plan and keeping my guard up.
No 'P' Streak: 36 days
No 'M' Streak: 19 Days
I learned this in my journey:
was having a significant urge last night - not like an emergency, but i “wanted” iti had no outletthen i went to bed, and of course next day the feeling is gone.THAT is where the filters are critical - when there is a really issue of willpower and self control, it was so helpful that that major safety wall was in place.i think there are is a “3 ply cord” to this issue and I’m finally getting the hang of it: 1. filters
for that kind of situation, but the filters a lone are necessary but not sufficient in itself; 2. clarifying intimacy, pleasure in general, and lust specifically, what is holy and what is sheker; and 3. regular conversation with other men about this, plus reading “battle of the generation.”these are the 3 pillars i think
