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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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TOPIC: 14 days!! 5788 Views

Re: 14 days!! 14 Mar 2024 17:29 #410171

notezy OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 497 Karma: 12	Great outlook, glad to hear you overcame the battle!
	"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend. "Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson Last Edit: 14 Mar 2024 17:29 by notezy.

Re: 14 days!! 18 Mar 2024 17:08 #410322

funbuchur OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 133 Karma: 12	Day 45 still going strong. Trying to really implement the different way of looking at urges and triggers not as attacks on me but seeing that it’s a challenge and it’s an opportunity to grow.

Re: 14 days!! 18 Mar 2024 17:27 #410323

notezy OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 497 Karma: 12	great to hear
	"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend. "Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson

Re: 14 days!! 19 Mar 2024 17:08 #410391

funbuchur OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 133 Karma: 12	Day 46. Still going well

Re: 14 days!! 19 Mar 2024 20:17 #410409

notezy OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 497 Karma: 12	Onwards and upwards brother!
	"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend. "Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson

Re: 14 days!! 20 Mar 2024 17:05 #410473

funbuchur OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 133 Karma: 12	Day 47 I don’t know how I’m this long clean. I genuinely did not know I had this in me.

Re: 14 days!! 22 Mar 2024 13:10 #410601

funbuchur OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 133 Karma: 12	Day 49! this day reminds me of two years ago pesach I was all excited saying it’s yom tov of leaving our meitzarim and our personal Galus and I’m going to go the whole sefira clean…. Didn’t have a plan didn’t know what gye was or anything and fell after two days. Was pretty upset and wondered what’s wrong with me. Just finished my first sefira clean. Wow

Re: 14 days!! 22 Mar 2024 13:42 #410603

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2918 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4058	Mazel Tov! Keep it up tzaddik! Purim clean and proud, Pesach clean and proud, Shavuos clean and proud - b'ezras Hashem.
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: 14 days!! 24 Mar 2024 19:10 #410643

eraygrand Current streak: 581 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 95 Karma: 10	Keep going, we're proud of you! A true פריילעכן פורים!!

Re: 14 days!! 26 Mar 2024 16:29 #410720

funbuchur
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Day 53
feels like forever since my last post. Hectic Purim was great tho.
yesterday had probably my biggest slip yet since this series I guess you can call it. Basically I had something opened that I needed for Purim and didn’t get it closed quick enough, and spent time last night looking at not the cleanest stuff. Not considering it a total fall because it didn’t fall into my red circle. (And probably cuz I’ll get too depressed if I have to start from the beginning, dunno if it’s how it works but whatever). Anyway I got that hole closed up today.

Re: 14 days!! 27 Mar 2024 17:08 #410785

funbuchur OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 133 Karma: 12	Day 54 Feeling empowered and ready to keep going. Going back uphill now don’t want to let it just go and continue as it is.

Re: 14 days!! 27 Mar 2024 18:29 #410795

notezy OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 497 Karma: 12	Great to hear
	"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend. "Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson

Re: 14 days!! 28 Mar 2024 17:13 #410873

funbuchur OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 133 Karma: 12	Day 55 I keep on thinking to myself if I didn’t have a filter no chance I would be clean, maybe 3 days. Am I accomplishing anything.

Re: 14 days!! 28 Mar 2024 17:21 #410874

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funbuchur wrote on 28 Mar 2024 17:13:

Day 55
I keep on thinking to myself if I didn’t have a filter no chance I would be clean, maybe 3 days. Am I accomplishing anything.

Of course you're accomplishing something. 55 days of being clean is amazing!
Who says you need to get to a point where you don't need a filter? Setting up a proper filter is a huge accomplishment on its own. This is just the yetzer hara trying to put down your truly astonishing accomplishments.

We are not the same people we once were. We are not so locked into our urges that we have no choice. We can choose to give in or choose to win this battle today. We do not want to give in, the pleasure of giving in is false.
With Hashem on our side our victory is inevitable; the only way we can lose is by giving up on playing the game.

Re: 14 days!! 28 Mar 2024 17:47 #410878

notezy OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 497 Karma: 12	YH playbook 101 your doing great man keep going
	"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend. "Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson