read it thnx,
As far as the addict VS musar seder approach. i know, I just got thick skin and am having a hard time getting it into my system. the truth is that when i approach a sittuation as a p#$% addict, i find it SO much easier to deal with my Y"H. lehavdil it's like a horor movie (@#$%). if someone tells you, "Now they're gonna play slow music, and in 3 seconds someone will scream, and someone's gonna run into the room wit a bloody chainsaw...". they kill all the effect of fear. hu hadin in sexual addiction. if i approach any situation knowing that , "Now there's gonna be a half-naked shiksah, and a 3/4 naked ad. And that billboard probably has 100% nudity. There's no element of surprise. You identified the nissayon, and made a dibur and hachlatah not to do the avaira. And in dong so you created malachim which are suppost to help you overcome the nissayon ( I once say this as pshat in mitzvh goreres mitzvah).
yeh i'm an internet junkie, sex addict, porn addict, sexaholic, pervert. I'm working on realizing it. thanks guard.
