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Re: Here we go! 21 Aug 2022 22:59 #384998

bisyata dishmaya Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 167 Karma: 8	Here's the latest: My yetzer hora is now telling me these days "are you sure you remember how to do it are you sure you're still able to?" why not try it once to confirm?
	The best tool in my opinion: Every day say Tehillim 16 32 41 42 59 77 90 105 137 150 Hatzlocha! My Thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378555-Here-we-go! Last Edit: 21 Aug 2022 22:59 by bisyata dishmaya.

Re: Here we go! 21 Aug 2022 23:01 #384999

bisyata dishmaya Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 167 Karma: 8	I remember seeing somewhere about a chosson shmuz for people who used to watch porn. Where can I find it and is it for me I don't think I watched anything hardcore but I'm not exactly sure what's included in that so maybe I did, so I'm not sure if it's for me or not?
	The best tool in my opinion: Every day say Tehillim 16 32 41 42 59 77 90 105 137 150 Hatzlocha! My Thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378555-Here-we-go!

Re: Here we go! 24 Aug 2022 19:38 #385127

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bisyata dishmaya wrote on 21 Aug 2022 23:01:

I remember seeing somewhere about a chosson shmuz for people who used to watch porn. Where can I find it and is it for me I don't think I watched anything hardcore but I'm not exactly sure what's included in that so maybe I did, so I'm not sure if it's for me or not?

It's in the audio library but it's locked. Message Menachem to open. It's called "The Chosson Shmuez You wish You Got"

Off the forum for now.
My Thread (Not for inspiration, but for random bits and pieces of my journey, as well as the inspiring responses of others: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/375514-Enough-is-Enough
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Re: Here we go! 25 Aug 2022 15:52 #385150

bisyata dishmaya Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 167 Karma: 8	Is it the one from Rabbi Simcha Feuerman because that wasn't locked?
	The best tool in my opinion: Every day say Tehillim 16 32 41 42 59 77 90 105 137 150 Hatzlocha! My Thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378555-Here-we-go!

Re: Here we go! 27 Aug 2022 20:08 #385196

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It used to be locked

Re: Here we go! 28 Aug 2022 02:04 #385200

bisyata dishmaya Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 167 Karma: 8	So that's the right one and will it be good for me to listen to?
	The best tool in my opinion: Every day say Tehillim 16 32 41 42 59 77 90 105 137 150 Hatzlocha! My Thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378555-Here-we-go!

Re: Here we go! 28 Aug 2022 17:07 #385219

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bisyata dishmaya wrote on 28 Aug 2022 02:04:

So that's the right one and will it be good for me to listen to?

It's the one I was reffering to. I'm not engaged or married (or even dating) yet, so I haven't listened o it.

Re: Here we go! 06 Sep 2022 18:25 #385510

bisyata dishmaya Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 167 Karma: 8	WOW BH HALF A YEAR!!!
	The best tool in my opinion: Every day say Tehillim 16 32 41 42 59 77 90 105 137 150 Hatzlocha! My Thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378555-Here-we-go!

Re: Here we go! 06 Sep 2022 18:29 #385511

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Bravo!!
Keep On Trucking!

I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).

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Re: Here we go! 23 Sep 2022 18:08 #385989

bisyata dishmaya Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 167 Karma: 8	OK so we reached 200 days. One day at a time. I didn't post anything in a while and nobody asked about me. I was hoping there would be some peer pressure to stay on and keep everyone updated but it seems like I can just disappear from GYE and do who knows what and nobody will even ask about me. Have a gr8 and clean Shabbos everyone.
	The best tool in my opinion: Every day say Tehillim 16 32 41 42 59 77 90 105 137 150 Hatzlocha! My Thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378555-Here-we-go!

Re: Here we go! 25 Sep 2022 00:54 #385997

frank.lee Current streak: 449 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 689 Karma: 21	Sorry you feel that way. Maybe we are all praying for you, and are confident that while getting ready for your wedding, you are busy with good things and positivity. We love you, even in our silence. Wishing you an amazing Yom tov and great sweet new year!

Re: Here we go! 25 Sep 2022 01:43 #385999

DeletedUser1224 Current streak: 399 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 138 Karma: 28	frank.lee wrote on 25 Sep 2022 00:54: Sorry you feel that way. Maybe we are all praying for you, and are confident that while getting ready for your wedding, you are busy with good things and positivity. We love you, even in our silence. I second that!
	If you are in the same situation as me, a bachur who’s fighting every day to break free, feel free to reach out to me at hopeful1245@gmail.com. I can use the chizuk from other bachrim and im sure you can use the chizuk as well. We are all in this together! My thread on the forum

Re: Here we go! 25 Sep 2022 01:59 #386002

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bisyata dishmaya wrote on 23 Sep 2022 18:08:

OK so we reached 200 days. One day at a time. I didn't post anything in a while and nobody asked about me. I was hoping there would be some peer pressure to stay on and keep everyone updated but it seems like I can just disappear from GYE and do who knows what and nobody will even ask about me. Have a gr8 and clean Shabbos everyone.

200 days is amazing!
it probably feels amazing walking into Rosh Hashanah
clean!
Much continued success!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Last Edit: 25 Sep 2022 02:00 by zedj.

Re: Here we go! 25 Sep 2022 06:41 #386007

retrych Current streak: 201 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 5	I can only speak for myself, when I see a thread that's not been updated in a while, I'm just scared of pushing someone more than they can handle at the moment. If you want to pushed, then, maybe I had the wrong attitude