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TOPIC: just do it! 5818 Views

Re: just do it! 30 Mar 2023 23:59 #394166

eerie Current streak: 846 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1589	Amazing! Keep it up, keep on inspiring us, and keep sharing your words of wisdom!
	Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com

Re: just do it! 20 Apr 2023 20:18 #394757

davidt OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1799	@Ybird how is day 520 going? (we're keeping track )
	"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?" feel free to reach out @ ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: just do it! 23 Apr 2023 18:22 #394846

ybird Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 274 Karma: 14	DavidT wrote on 20 Apr 2023 20:18: @Ybird how is day 520 going? (we're keeping track ) Bh, 524 days feels great
	* READ THIS* You may see a low number of clean days, but don't forget to add 700 days to it, YES! you're reading it well, Seven Hundred plus amount of days

Re: just do it! 07 Jul 2023 03:52 #398462

ybird Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 274 Karma: 14	Hey guys, 600 days is just around the corner, I can already smell it
	* READ THIS* You may see a low number of clean days, but don't forget to add 700 days to it, YES! you're reading it well, Seven Hundred plus amount of days

Re: just do it! 07 Jul 2023 13:13 #398465

chaimoigen Current streak: 577 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1386 Karma: 137	The tantalizing scent of that awesome accomplishment is giving me a healthy surge of Kinas Sofrim! And fueling my internal engine with a lot of hope and belief to stay on this path. Hoping and planning on being there with you in a little under 550. But never to surpass you. kol hakavod!!!
	Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com Last Edit: 07 Jul 2023 13:15 by chaimoigen.

Re: just do it! 11 Oct 2023 14:32 #402099

ybird
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Hi Guys!!

Its really sad but i went from 691 days clean down to 2.

i have been doing great for a long while, (like really looooong) and now such an intense sadness,

I've been this Chol Hamoed in Orlando, to some places where Tzniyut is not on their priority, and WITHOUT my wife, i had no choice, i couldn't stay home (read reason later in the post), and after being turned up by these sights i started searching on my filtered tablet, and from there to prohibited thought's during the night, and in the morning shower i did accidently started rubbing myself and the unformidable happened
but i was thinking to myself, if you take flour, eggs, sugar and baking powder and mix them together you get a cookie, same with this, you take a single man (temporary of course, my wife had given birth to a baby and was resting in a Kimpeturen home back home), you put him in Disney land during the sweltering heat with all those scantily clad girls this is the outcome, but merely 2 days later i did it again during the night of Hoshana Rabah, and again Simches torah Morning,

With the 2'nd and 3'rd times it happened i felt that it was only the Satan wants me to think that I am in his back pocket, his long lost customer is back to normal business,

and am walking around with this intense shame and guilt that the hero is gone, i was about to celebrate my 700 days clean and now look at me.

Have all a nice day,

*** READ THIS***
You may see a low number of clean days, but don't forget to add 700 days to it, YES! you're reading it well, Seven Hundred plus

amount of days

Re: just do it! 11 Oct 2023 14:53 #402100

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You went 691 days clean.. This is beyond incredible. Forget about what happened and move on. Don't think about it one bit. Thats just the YH talking. You are a tzaddik. that is nearly 2 years clean.. truly amazing.. Move on and remember what a tzaddik you are. The Hero is right there inside of you, nu now its another test.. sometimes we are up sometimes we are down but we never give in. The hero is inside you, don't let the YH tell you otherwise. 691 days.. Incredible. I am inspired by you.

Re: just do it! 11 Oct 2023 15:00 #402101

DeletedUser1281 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 35	Hey Ybird, welcome back. Taking a hit after 691 days sounds awful (especially for the ego if we're being honest). The good news is, you weren't killed in action. Here's my outstretched hand, get back into the tank and rumble on!
	We get only one chance at life. This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing. Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: just do it! 11 Oct 2023 22:03 #402121

chaimoigen
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Takes guts to write that post. With all the details.
Takes more guts to get to where you were. And where you are is where you were plus a few mistakes.

Regret is a healthy emotion.
Guilt generally is not.
There’s a world of a difference.

Shame can be harnessed, or it can run you over and trample you with its iron hooves.
You can feel shame in front of yourself, the guy who is writing the post. Ok, you won’t want to let him down again.

Ask for help from Hashem, and as Connected says: Get back in the tank!

KOMT

Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com

Last Edit: 11 Oct 2023 22:04 by chaimoigen.

Re: just do it! 16 Oct 2023 15:07 #402330

ybird Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 274 Karma: 14	Day 8 + 766 cumulative days guys i'm fully back, we are not giving up
	* READ THIS* You may see a low number of clean days, but don't forget to add 700 days to it, YES! you're reading it well, Seven Hundred plus amount of days

Re: just do it! 16 Oct 2023 15:10 #402331

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2918 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4057	Ybird wrote on 16 Oct 2023 15:07: Day 8 + 766 cumulative days guys i'm fully back, we are not giving up The attitude of a healthy guy.
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: just do it! 01 Nov 2023 13:13 #403104

ybird Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 274 Karma: 14	Attachments: screenshot...1020.png (48KB)
	* READ THIS* You may see a low number of clean days, but don't forget to add 700 days to it, YES! you're reading it well, Seven Hundred plus amount of days Last Edit: 01 Nov 2023 13:13 by ybird.

Re: just do it! 01 Nov 2023 14:19 #403106

davidt OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1799	Ybird wrote on 01 Nov 2023 13:13: * READ THIS* You may see a low number of clean days, but don't forget to add 700 days to it, YES! you're reading it well, Seven Hundred plus amount of days 23 days is NOT a low number... keep it up!
	"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?" feel free to reach out @ ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: just do it! 14 Nov 2023 14:32 #403641

ybird Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 274 Karma: 14	good morning everyone. Today is November 15, Today would have been 2 years clean for me, but thanks to my stupidity I'm only 37 days clean of masturbations. but still 2 years clean of watching Pornography.
	* READ THIS* You may see a low number of clean days, but don't forget to add 700 days to it, YES! you're reading it well, Seven Hundred plus amount of days

Re: just do it! 14 Nov 2023 14:55 #403644

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Ybird wrote on 14 Nov 2023 14:32:

good morning everyone.

Today is November 15,
Today would have been 2 years clean for me, but thanks to my stupidity I'm only 37 days clean of masturbations.
but still 2 years clean of watching Pornography.

Hi Ybird, so good to hear from you again!
2 years from Porn and Masturbation! you can fall one day that doesnt take away the 2 years.
And dont call yourself stupid. Masturbation is a very tough habit to kick because we cant lock it up or filter it (or cant we? how does a chastity belt work?......something to look into).................
Anyway, onward and upward buddy....
You are incredible and inspiring. Dont tell yourself otherwise.

Thank you