Mazel Tov to both of you!  Keep it up and keep inspiring !

A humongous mazal tov from all of us. Its a huge zchus to join you in this wonderful time of accomplishment. Don't be down on yourself if you continue to have urges, to continue throughout the rest of your fight. Just know you're strong enough and keep going!! :-)

Mazel tov! Amazing!

Was there something you think that specifically helped you get over the top?

Mazel Tov BHHYY! 
Such great news!
Keep rocking!

Sapy wrote on 23 Jan 2022 19:35:

Mazel Tov Sapy!
I'm so happy to see you reach 90!
In your honor I will be making a lechaim! 
( after all, I learned from the best )

Wow...what a moment. 365 days...1 year clean.
Hodu L'Hashem Ki Tov!!!!!!!
What a year it has been.
I haven't updated you friends in quite a while so here we go.
Over this last year I got engaged and married!
It is hard to describe what one year clean is like. It's not like there is a button that just turns off all desire, it's just different. Is walking outside still a nisayon? Yes. Is there still a huge nisayon when using technology? Definitely yes. Do I get urges? Yes.
But it is different.
I am in control. I don't fall apart every time I get an urge. It's so hard to describe. But I wish it upon each and every one of you!!!
First and foremost I want to thank all of you who have been with me on this journey. This platform is truly amazing.
I want to give a special shoutout to a few tzadikim who have been at my side this entire time.
Bigmoish - it all started with you. The first person I reached out to. The first person who really pushed me to recovery. Thank you!
Hashem Help Me - My friend and my Rebbe. Thank you for always being there (and continuing to be there!!) whenever I needed someone to talk to (or give me a good kick in the pants and tighten up the nuts and bolts!)
iampowerless - Yankel! Having a friend fighting right alongside me was indispensable. Thank you for your advice, your friendship, and your constant positive attitude.
Finally, thank you to all the members of the SMART meeting. You forever have a special place in my heart!

Thank you GYE!!!

Thank you Hashem!!!!!!

BHYY wrote on 27 Oct 2022 13:31:

What amazing news! So happy for you! Thanks for sharing! Keep on trucking! 

BHYY wrote on 27 Oct 2022 13:31:

Amazing news and fantastic accomplishment. And mazal tov on your marriage!!! May Hashem continue to bless you with self control because there is nothing better than being in control!

Hello, hello!
Life is good, life is great
It’s a chance to celebrate...
Always good to start off with some Benny.

Bottom line, life is great. I'm married, I have a kid, and I am in control.

That being said, I have noticed that lately I have been taking more and more "peeks" (and more than that) in places on the internet that I should not be. B"H I have not made it back to porn and I have not masturbated. I've been tap dancing on the line. So after contemplating this for some time, I went ahead and reset my counter today. For those who have made it this far you know that it gets to a point where the number really means nothing. The number is nothing to me. I have life, I don't need a streak. Still, I reset and want you all to keep me accountable. I challenge myself to 90 days of complete cleanliness. I need to strengthen all the knots that may have loosened a little.

And I am purposely posting this here in my original thread (because I am awfully proud of it). If you remember me, drop me a line and we'll catch up. If you don't know me, feel free to introduce yourself. Read through my thread, I've had highs and lows, hope and yeiush. But here I am, happily married and living life as a good Jew. I believe that this challenge of shmiras einyaim may just be my nisayon for life. I can throw in the towel when I am not perfect and go all out like I used to, or I can realize that this is my life's challenge from the Ribono Shel Olam. I am so, so proud of my journey and I hope reading through my thread will give others chizuk.

Feel free to reach out by PM or email, bhyy@protonmail.com

I look forward to an awesome 90 days together.

Wow, what an inspiring thread!

I joined in May, so hadn’t seen your thread at all, what tremendous work!

Keep the inspiration coming, and stay on here with us!!

Muttel

Welcome back! Thank you for your courageous and inspiring post!

Hello all,
Doing great B"H. I hope everyone else is as well.