unfortunately i saw a new inappropriate movie has been released and i didn't watch that because i just masturbated after another movie.
i want to really quit po*rn but the thoughts of that new movie will push me to again masturbation in a few days later.
What should i do???
please answer me.
#Question

drust wrote on 19 Sep 2019 14:35:

Sorry, wish I could. My personal preference was/is generally for the older (although mostly not vintage) films. Sadly, my problem was that there is a limit (can you imagine that?) to how many such movies were/are available. I was forced to quit watching.

This paragraph was deleted by the moderator, may he live long and be blessed.

The new  movies hardly ever excited me; no plots, no clothing and no class. So, now, I'm bored, staying home twiddling my thumbs, waiting for the world to go back in time twenty years, so old geezers like me can have some fun again.

Sorry if this didn't answer your question, or maybe it did.

As mentioned above, Webchaver or another accountability system has helped many. Or you can do like me - My wife is the administrator of the filter. I cant remove it, simple as that.

What's wrong with you drust?
U just masturbate after on 1 day cleaning. Are you OK?
what happened to me?  
In one week I masturbate 3 times.!
I can't be ok in this condition.
Please someone tell me what should I do

Drust

You have to understand why you masturbate.

Only then can you stop it.

ColinColin wrote on 02 Oct 2019 21:00:

No, as a matter of fact, it is not an absolute to understand why you masturbate. (For some people, it may help, or it may not )

And for many of us, we cannot stop it. 

Some of us have found that, when workin' a program, masturbation is no more part of our daily routine.

Drust,
Recently what's helped me is not to try to get to 90. Rather each moment I'm at zero. I'm not aiming for a goal, and I'm not trying not to fall. I'm trying to live a normal (albright stressful) life. Sometimes I so want to escape to my porn, but I'm trying to internalize that it won't help me at all.
Hatzlocha

cordnoy wrote on 02 Oct 2019 23:23:

I think what he was referring too, is sometime, masterbation is an escape from something deeper.  You can't cure a root canal by treating it like a cavity. 

Thank you all for your useful comments bros.
Today is my 16th day of cleaning and I'm happy because of that.
But from the morning, Bad thoughts have attacked to me...
and last night I saw a bad nightmare about porn things and I can't run away from that thoughts.
I know everytime I want to watch pornography, I start with twitter. So today I removed twitter app from my phone but the bad thoughts haven't left me yet.
What should I do?
please show me the right way

drust wrote on 18 Oct 2019 09:24:

There are many ways to re-wire the brain from having porn being the 1st go to. 
12 steps, Therapy, etc...
Its almost like we have a bird brain on this topic which keeps tweeting even after deleting the twitter app...

For now ignore the dreams. They are expected to come when we stop acting out. Iyh with time they will lessen in frequency and clarity. Keep connected and iyh you will pull through.

What's wrong with me?
every week when I'm alone in home, I'm tempted to watching porn.
Today I masturbated after 1 week as the same as other weeks.
I can't stop thinking about pornstars. I can't stop imagining the women's bodies.
I think there is no hope to get away from porn.
God... Please Help me... You are reading this note. Tell me what should I do....

drust wrote on 20 Dec 2019 17:30:

God is readin', that is true, but He generally does not respond here. Perhaps it's on account of those damn moderators! In any event, I was in the same boat as you are for many years. I'm still in the water, but that particular boat took a lot of hard work to get out of. Years of therapy, step work, SA meetings, sponsors and more helped me. Meetin' with real live people from gye helped me as well.

Godspeed to you

cordnoy wrote on 20 Dec 2019 18:01:

Naa, G-d loves the mods too! I didn't hear Him cursin' them out. :-)
In any event, that boat's still sailin'.
I've heard it said that the hardest trip is the one that you've already done once, but the 2nd time around you see the weak spots that were missed in the beginning and ends up double as strong and triple as sweet.

see ya
sg

Sometimes I think maybe, I did something wrong... maybe I entered in a wrong path.
But I don't want to mast*urbate anymore.
I don't want to watch por*nography anymore.
I don't want to text the girl who lead me to the mast*urbating.
GOD I'm here. listen to me. I want to become a powerful boy. I want to be determined in the right way.