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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 17 Jun 2015 16:42 #257043

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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 17 Jun 2015 16:57 #257047

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bardichev wrote:
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FOOOOR! NAYN??
NAYN FOOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KEEP ON TRUCKING

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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 17 Jun 2015 17:13 #257050

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ZemirosShabbos wrote:
bardichev wrote:
4994

FOOOOR! NAYN??
NAYN FOOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KEEP ON TRUCKING



Don't jump da gun!
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 17 Jun 2015 17:16 #257051

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cordnoy wrote:
ZemirosShabbos wrote:
bardichev wrote:
4994

FOOOOR! NAYN??
NAYN FOOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KEEP ON TRUCKING



Don't jump da gun!


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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 19 Jun 2015 18:10 #257239

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Been having a slightly rough time lately.
My utmost thanks and gratitude to everyone who continues to inspire me, listen to me, and share with me both on and off the forum. It's a long list, and if you're reading this, you're probably on it...
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 19 Jun 2015 18:14 #257240

Bigmoish wrote:
Been having a slightly rough time lately.
My utmost thanks and gratitude to everyone who continues to inspire me, listen to me, and share with me both on and off the forum. It's a long list, and if you're reading this, you're probably on it...


Moish,
We all believe in you, respect you, admire you and are very inspired by you!
Have a wonderful Shabbos!

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 19 Jun 2015 19:51 #257242

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Bigmoish wrote:
Been having a slightly rough time lately.
My utmost thanks and gratitude to everyone who continues to inspire me, listen to me, and share with me both on and off the forum. It's a long list, and if you're reading this, you're probably on it...


We are rootin' for you
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 19 Jun 2015 21:20 #257247

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I can relate and so have I. What works for me is to change my mind set and up my med dose.
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 24 Jun 2015 15:59 #257597

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I've been having somewhat of a difficult time lately, and yesterday I acted out. I am thinking it's related to my constant "fear" of facing decisions.
Well, today I am facing them head on.
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www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

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"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 24 Jun 2015 19:29 #257643

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Hatzlacha my friend. thanks for keeping posting.

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 29 Jun 2015 11:51 #258028

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Bigmoish wrote:
I've been having somewhat of a difficult time lately, and yesterday I acted out. I am thinking it's related to my constant "fear" of facing decisions.
Well, today I am facing them head on.


Hi Moish!!!

How was the facing decisions?

And how are you doing in general?

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 29 Jun 2015 11:59 #258030

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Those decisions were faced. New ones pop up every day.

General? Sadly, I keep getting bumped back down to private.
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www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 29 Jun 2015 13:17 #258036

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What's so sad about being a private?

I know it's not a fun thought, especially for egotistical guys like myself, but we are just privates. We are not in control, we don't give the orders, we take the orders, we have to fill out other peoples commands, sometimes we may understand them, sometimes we don't, some orders are easier to carry out, some are more difficult.

A humbling thought it is, but it's the truth!

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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 29 Jun 2015 14:57 #258044

BM, To me you are a general. You fearlessly have taken on an enemy that is stronger than you, smarter than you and more dedicated than you.
You chose methods to outflank the Yh tapping into the unlimited strength of HKB"H. So you can win this war without firing a single shot. You can watch from the sidelines as HKBH wages your battle. Pretty smart strategy befitting a general.
Most do not become a general until they reach their 40's. You are a child prodigy rising to general status at such a young age.
I envy your courage, wisdom, and commitment!

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 29 Jun 2015 16:15 #258056

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