Is it muttar to go on GYE on nittel?
can one be mikel after chatzos?

parev wrote on 25 Dec 2024 00:14:

i think in the baali batim forum can be an issue if it can lead to intimacy...

Is it forbidden on Nittel?

doingtshuva wrote on 25 Dec 2024 00:39:

הבעש"ט אמר דהמשומדים נולדו מאותו לילה

asktherav.com/18638-is-intimacy-permitted-on-nittel-night/

Of course, intimacy on Nittel with your wife is a lot better than P&M. 
Just saying. 

chaimoigen wrote on 06 Jan 2025 22:51:

What about dogging - is that also better than P&M?
Just askin'

parev wrote on 06 Jan 2025 23:20:

Posts like that are why people sometimes question your level of seriousness.
I personally dont appreciate such questions.

redfaced wrote on 06 Jan 2025 23:58:

I was trying to be polite.
but i see that my sarcasm was lost on this innocent forum, so ill have to be a little more explicit.
Mr Chaim - what a most ridiculous thing to start rating avairos
Like u guys didn't appreciate my question - i didn't appreciate your wiscrack. [and that was the point of my post - to get u to think, but it was lost on some of you]
Sex [especially when done in a wrong time etc] is never menna be 'the lesser of the 2 evils'
we are here to work man - and posts like yours undermine the system.
Just saying

parev wrote on 07 Jan 2025 05:54:

Shalom Brother Parev,

I'd like to extend you the courtesy of reviewing this post and confirming that you mean what you wrote before I respond.

Kol Tov

parev wrote on 07 Jan 2025 05:54:

Don't be silly - it doesn't look good on you.
How about you go see how many times that there is a more chamur issue of intimacy than Nittel Nacht . Lets say for example RH. Yet its pretty clear in Shulchan Aruch that if it will bring to Hirhurim its better to be intimate.
Its always better to be oiver on a minhag if not being oiver on the minhag will bring to a true issur.
Im working with the assumption that nittel is even qualified as a minhag which is probably debatable

parev wrote on 25 Dec 2024 00:14:

@ parev


  


cande

Got a PM empathizing for the backlash
I'm just sitting here laughing out loud!
I find this discussion hilarions.
If the OP would have written 'Although there seems to be a mokor to be stringent, one should be aware that it's only a minhag/inyan/drabonon or whatever and should take that into account under the circumstances'
I would have even awarded him with a thank you and a karma.
He wrote something else and I justify the sarcasm that I responded with
[BenHashem you have full permission to respond]

cande wrote on 07 Jan 2025 14:19:

R U serious???
This is in the Just for fun section

parev wrote on 07 Jan 2025 19:14:

So are you here to work or here just having fun? Cuz you said both.