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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 31 Oct 2016 17:06 #297081

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eslaasos wrote on 31 Oct 2016 16:46:

stillgoing wrote on 31 Oct 2016 16:00:

eslaasos wrote on 31 Oct 2016 14:31:

Now this is an image I can understand

Although I don't agree with the message, but you can't get everything...

You're entitled :-). Which part?

Disclaimer, my comments feel nitpicky even to me. I like the image more than I disagree with the message.

OK, so the first part reminds me of the Rebbe with the big stick (how's that for imagery) back in the cheder teaching us the Hagada and impressing on us that the only true ben chorin is someone who is not a slave to his Yetzer Hara.

For the 2nd part, I have no idea what happiness is, I only familiar with the artificially generated type, and I have occasionally enjoyed what I do.

It's interesting that you feel that way. I thought that for those on this site, the idea that we are a slave to our passions and not free at all is much stronger feeling then it is to others.

As far as the second part, based on those clean-streak numbers in your signature, it seems to me that you have been at least temporarily "freed" from the passions, During that time did you enjoy what you were doing? Were you happy? (btw, I'm not sure if one can over analyze himself if he is really really happy. Then he becomes un-happy just because he is agonizing over the state of his happiness.)

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 31 Oct 2016 17:12 #297082

stillgoing OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1700 Karma: 157	Bigmoish wrote on 31 Oct 2016 16:59: Interesting. I misunderstood your disagreement. I do what I like quite often, but it feels more like slavery than freedom. You'll tell me, "then you're not doing what you like!," but I have a hard time accepting that. Ok, so we have a conundrum - a stira. What do you think can be an explanation?
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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 31 Oct 2016 17:17 #297084

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stillgoing wrote on 31 Oct 2016 17:12:

Bigmoish wrote on 31 Oct 2016 16:59:

Interesting. I misunderstood your disagreement.
I do what I like quite often, but it feels more like slavery than freedom.
You'll tell me, "then you're not doing what you like!," but I have a hard time accepting that.

Ok, so we have a conundrum - a stira. What do you think can be an explanation?

Ouch, you're making me think, and thinking makes my head hurt.

On a side note, you spelled conundrum correctly, but you messed up on stirah

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 31 Oct 2016 17:28 #297085

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I wasn't going to comment and then everyone said what I was thinking. For me, freedom is the ability to say no. I'm free when I can say that I don't have to lust today. Freedom for me isn't running wild. Although I agree in part to the quote, because having the ability to do what you like is freeing.

I agree with the happiness statement. It's not completely true, there's a lot more to happiness then just liking what you do, but I am much happier these days, and I think it's partially because my life is centered around doing what I like and I'm successful at it.

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 01 Nov 2016 00:20 #297106

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This reminds me of my favorite quote from Rav Matisyahu Salamon " Bechira is not the ability to choose to do what we want, it is the ability to choose to do what we don't want".

And Freedom means having the ability to make your own choices.

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 01 Nov 2016 04:42 #297119

shlomo24 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2213 Karma: 135	Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 01 Nov 2016 00:20: This reminds me of my favorite quote from Rav Matisyahu Salamon " Bechira is not the ability to choose to do what we want, it is the ability to choose to do what we don't want". And Freedom means having the ability to make your own choices. Funny, I originally heard it from Rabbi Wallerstein.
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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 01 Nov 2016 14:13 #297133

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Shlomo24 wrote on 01 Nov 2016 04:42:

Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 01 Nov 2016 00:20:

Funny, I originally heard it from Rabbi Wallerstein.

I would venture, that there's more of a chance that R' Wallerstein heard it from R' Salamon, then vice versa, although you never know.

Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 01 Nov 2016 15:16 #297139

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stillgoing wrote on 31 Oct 2016 14:12:

II couldn't disagree more.

I am thinking of doing what I like and although I think I'm being free, it is exactly the opposite.

Cheirus is not doing what you like to do.
What it is is an entire discussion.

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 01 Nov 2016 15:21 #297140

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And the quote from rav solomon is right on, and truth be told, it is the simple and basic pshat in cheirus.

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 06 Nov 2016 20:44 #297426

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	BIG SHOT! Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards) 613stillgoing@gmail.com

Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 07 Nov 2016 08:46 #297457

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 09 Nov 2016 00:02 #297562

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 13 Nov 2016 00:01 #297744

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 13 Nov 2016 00:15 #297745

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Watson wrote on 13 Nov 2016 00:01:

If every day had nothing but sunshine, we'd be living in a desert.

I'd take that.

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Re: Daily Quote - Be Inspired 14 Nov 2016 03:21 #297801

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	BIG SHOT! Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards) 613stillgoing@gmail.com