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Gathering Together The Bachurim 31 Oct 2023 14:12 #403025

I would love to gather together current and former yeshiva bachurim who have struggled with and or continue to struggle with porn and masturbation, on a shared forum to discuss and relate to each other’s struggles. I don’t know how that could be done but looking for other bachurim and ideas as to how to make it happen.

Whether or not it is possible, always open to personal messaging from individual bachurim who share similar struggles with porn and masturbation.

I am a frum, 21-year-old bachur, in fourth-year bais medrash in America.

Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 31 Oct 2023 16:29 #403032

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stepintgerightdirection wrote on 31 Oct 2023 14:12:

I would love to gather together current and former yeshiva bachurim who have struggled with and or continue to struggle with porn and masturbation, on a shared forum to discuss and relate to each other’s struggles. I don’t know how that could be done but looking for other bachurim and ideas as to how to make it happen.

Whether or not it is possible, always open to personal messaging from individual bachurim who share similar struggles with porn and masturbation.

I am a frum, 21-year-old bachur, in fourth-year bais medrash in America.


keep posting here and you will find many in similiar situations to you.  

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Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 08 Nov 2023 02:24 #403431

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I’m much older then you but have gone through the Yeshiva/kollel system with my struggles. 

Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 08 Nov 2023 03:20 #403435

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I’m also 21 in fourth year in America and would be interested. 

Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 08 Nov 2023 04:06 #403436

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Don't leave me out! Im in bmg
"Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm" - Winston Churchill

Curiosity kills the count

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Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 09 Nov 2023 00:52 #403470

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I’d offer to host the BMG guys.
However, after the first 25 guys with hats and jackets walk in, my neighbors will join thinking I’m having a parlor meeting.
Here to see what works for others and a good shmooze. 
Always here to share my journey N' what works for me. 
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One day at a time! Today is what counts. RULE 62. It’s the first drink that gets me drunk.
“Yesterday is the past, tomorrow is the future and [a] mystery.Today matters most”
One lust drink is too many and a thousand isn't enough.
**Its a part of me, not who I am**
Last Edit: 09 Nov 2023 01:44 by crabapple18.

Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 16 Nov 2023 12:13 #403734

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So what happened to this thread?
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Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 17 Nov 2023 04:37 #403771

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So what happened to this thread?I think they started a Rayzit campaign for the Hot Dogs. 



@HHM - I Heard they are looking for a speaker…
Here to see what works for others and a good shmooze. 
Always here to share my journey N' what works for me. 
Feel free to reach out 24/6 charlesbosgod@gmail.com
One day at a time! Today is what counts. RULE 62. It’s the first drink that gets me drunk.
“Yesterday is the past, tomorrow is the future and [a] mystery.Today matters most”
One lust drink is too many and a thousand isn't enough.
**Its a part of me, not who I am**

Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 27 Mar 2024 04:38 #410759

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Sighn me up went to my GYE savior on Purim with a few friends it was very liberating to be so open (when your drunk its much easer   

Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 29 Mar 2024 03:39 #410920

I'm 20 in beis medrish in America also struggling

Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 14 May 2024 23:24 #413359

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21 here. Would love a forum for support specifically for this age group, 18-25 etc.
Keep in mind: tractate k(iddushin) daf 30b:
בראתי יצר הרע ובראתי לו תורה תבלין

Re: Gathering Together The Bachurim 29 Aug 2024 05:28 #420320

nu, so if we all want it, what are we waiting for?
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