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Taking on for someone else. 02 May 2023 11:36 #395222

  • notezy
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I have found taking on a day of the week in the merit of someone I knew who died to work however and I have found it hard to really replicate this. I have tried a few times with some success nothing that's lasted as long as the first person I took it on for...
"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.

"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson
But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change.

The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want.
-Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG)

Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG

Re: Taking on for someone else. 02 May 2023 12:06 #395224

I don’t have any advice because for you because I’m not an expert and new to this forum thing. You seem to be trying hard and really tying to make a big effort! One day your challenge will be be behind you betrat Hashem! 

Re: Taking on for someone else. 02 May 2023 15:54 #395238

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Interesting idea, thanks for sharing. I think at some point it may not be enough to do it for someone else, even for Hashem. I think we may need to do it for ourselves, which, if it works, is better for everyone else.
"It is not our abilities that show who we truly are, it is our choices.” ---- Albus Dumbeldore (as per Chris Columbus)

Re: Taking on for someone else. 02 May 2023 16:58 #395244

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Want to try a different zechus? For the zechus of X who is struggling with Y, even for the general success of the klall in shemiras einayim or something else
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