Welcome, Guest
GYE
Forum for Jewish Men
What Works for Me

delicate question
(0 viewing) 
If you've made progress - thank G-d, double your merit by inspiring others as well! Post the tips and advice that worked best for you in your journey to sobriety or tell us about recommendations you heard from others that work.
Reply Topic
New Topic
  • Page:
  • 1

TOPIC: delicate question 2147 Views

delicate question 11 May 2015 04:08 #254298

  • gye1962
  • Current streak: 1 day
  • OFFLINE
  • Senior Boarder
  • Posts: 55
  • Karma: 3
hi

Recently i put filters on every device i own. now i don't have any access to pornography.

if when i fall( because of a strong urge) i do zera lebatal without pornography, will this help me to eventually beat this addiction, or will i eventually turn back to pornography?

simplifeid: am i addicted to Pornography? or to zera lebatal? or both?

Re: delicate question 11 May 2015 13:46 #254320

  • cordnoy
  • OFFLINE
  • Moderator
  • Posts: 12072
  • Karma: 652
How should we know?
What's the difference?
How's your mind?
What and why do you wanna stop?

sorry if my response was not as delicate as your question.

b'hatzlachah
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
My job: Punchin' bag of GYE - "NeshamaInCharge"
Quote from the chevra: "Is Cordnoy truly a Treasure Island pirate from the Southern Seas?"

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.
Last Edit: 11 May 2015 13:46 by cordnoy.

Re: delicate question 11 May 2015 14:56 #254334

  • gye1962
  • Current streak: 1 day
  • OFFLINE
  • Senior Boarder
  • Posts: 55
  • Karma: 3
hi

i guess i dint put my question correctly

if i stop watching pornography , will i eventualy stop doing zera lebatal, or they dont have anything to do with each other?

Re: delicate question 11 May 2015 15:50 #254340

  • lomed
  • OFFLINE
  • Gold Boarder
  • Posts: 307
  • Karma: 47
I assume It depends for each individual. For me, I was not watching porn very much (about once every few month). but zera levatoloh was done almost daily. I am sure that many here had different experience. The main thing is we have to be ready to take the challenge upon ourselves.
I currently attend live SA meetings. Feel free to reach out to me.

Re: delicate question 11 May 2015 15:56 #254341

  • cordnoy
  • OFFLINE
  • Moderator
  • Posts: 12072
  • Karma: 652
gye1962 wrote:
hi

i guess i dint put my question correctly

if i stop watching pornography , will i eventualy stop doing zera lebatal?


no (not if you don't work on it).
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
My job: Punchin' bag of GYE - "NeshamaInCharge"
Quote from the chevra: "Is Cordnoy truly a Treasure Island pirate from the Southern Seas?"

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.
Reply Topic
New Topic
  • Page:
  • 1
GYE
Forum for Jewish Men
What Works for Me
Moderators: yechidah, skeptical, the.guard, kedusha, Dov, cordnoy, menachemgye, smartlakewood
Powered by Kunena
Time to create page: 0.40 seconds

Are you sure?

Yes