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Re: movies and YOU 26 Jul 2023 14:08 #399194

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lavi wrote on 08 Jul 2014 20:06:
hello everbody,
i like the name of this category" what works for me, because there is an opportunity to write about true experiences that already was, without the great unknown future being a factor.
having said that i want to tell the oilam, what i have learnt and what i feel about movies ie. watching for entertainment any kind of show which involves acting. ( i mean to exclude nature and science shows- to some extent.
absolute poison. clouds the mind. pumps the imaginations. wastes time. destroys true emotions. kindles lust (oh so gently), makes the fantasy real, makes real fantasy.
makes you oiver a whole bunch of issurim, which does tend to push away siatta dishmaya which we need so desparately. how on earth are you suppose to concentrate on any good thing, let alone a tosafos or a shmona esrei, with "stuff" flying through your mind. i know we need outlets, but there gotta be things that are exactly that outlets, not inlets, healthy stuff, and the way to tell is by seeing if they disturb you when you are trying to focus on doing important things.
i haven't seen youtube for a month and i feel a different person.
can you relate?

Yes, I can relate. I'm at about one month now myself. This is a game changer. It's amazing how the yetzer hara got me from being a kollel yungerman to watching YouTube for entertainment purpose; to the point where I didn't feel there was anything wrong.

Re: movies and YOU 26 Jul 2023 20:16 #399203

i also relate 

Re: movies and YOU 28 Jul 2023 01:45 #399221

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Complete game changer for me was when I accepted to avoid looking up anything recreational on the internet. Not even a random interesting article, interesting new product, or anything completely innocuous that would feed my insatiable curiosity.
(Not) surprisingly enough, life has been completely different.    
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