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Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 19:23 #420668

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tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 02 Sep 2024 19:11:
soundedl like he's giving me another bochur whos still struggling

That is what GYE calls a partner which was your first request. Someone who isn't struggling anymore is going to be a mentor.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 19:40 #420671

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Some obsessions with partners lately, intriguing..
Aka -  Mischadeish075 Email mischadeish075@gmail.com

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 19:52 #420675

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mggsbms wrote on 02 Sep 2024 19:40:
Some obsessions with partners lately, intriguing..

Yes, only that for some reason this time it seems to have been approved. Perhaps GYE believes that with this person who will be his partner it will be safe for both of them.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 21:26 #420683

yitzchockm, you pm'd me. i can't pm , i only see them Because they get forwarded to my email. If you can give me an email address That I can contact you with, Then I can continue that conversation.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 21:45 #420685

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tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 17:07:
tried reaching out to all of them. most of them didn't respond. those that did its going very slow ( they ask a question, I respond, they follow up a day later, etc.)

Hi there. You say you tried reaching out to all of the above. I didn't see any email from you. ??? 
My email is in my signature. Feel free to reach out. 
Keep trucking!
Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 21:48 #420686

weird, I definitely emailed you. got it now?

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 21:51 #420688

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Yes, I replied there. Looking forward to continued conversation beH
Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 21:52 #420689

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These other things aren't my main struggle, and I think that if I just take care of m*******tion and mz"l, these other struggles will disappear by themselves.why you obsessing over masturbation??


its a pretty common and normal struggle for bouchrim, it shouldnt be the cause for these other "things" and "struggels"

mabye just forget about the whole thing and start the zman with a knock!



love you'

cande
Last Edit: 02 Sep 2024 21:56 by cande.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 22:04 #420690

I've been struggling with it for years, starting the zman with a knock isn't going to help.
Being common or normal Doesn't make it Less harmful or assur

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 22:07 #420692

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בדרך שאיש רוצה, מוליכין...

In the way a person wants to go, this they guide him.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 22:11 #420693

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I only struggled with M for decades and it wasn't something to simply be dismissed. I answered yes to 12 of the 20 questions of the SA questionnaire. I needed real professional help which I got on GYE. It isn't right to dismiss someone who was just struggling with M. As hatzaddikvikam13 wrote he is also struggling with other things but this isn't necessary in order to need GYE. GYE only writes that if someone only fell a few times they don't need GYE.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 02 Sep 2024 22:39 #420696

frank.lee wrote on 02 Sep 2024 22:07:
בדרך שאיש רוצה, מוליכין...

In the way a person wants to go, this they guide him.

Are you suggesting that there's no need for GYE and that it should be closed down?

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 03 Sep 2024 00:07 #420705

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tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 02 Sep 2024 18:26:
What I heard from him was very different from what I hear on the forum and the site. He basically said, forget about flight to freedom, the battle of the generation, & mentors.
Tell yourself that you just don't do it anymore, call me every day to report your progress or when you feel you're going to fall, and I'm giving you a partner to talk to, not to learn with, and thats about it.
Didn't sound like a personalized recommendation.
Sounded like he was saying that different things talk to different people, everyone has their own mehalech, this is his.
 That mehalech doesn't really talk me

this sounds amazing!! for masturbation issue.
what more could you want?
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 03 Sep 2024 01:41 #420712

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eerie wrote on 02 Sep 2024 21:45:

tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 17:07:
tried reaching out to all of them. most of them didn't respond. those that did its going very slow ( they ask a question, I respond, they follow up a day later, etc.)

Hi there. You say you tried reaching out to all of the above. I didn't see any email from you. ??? 
My email is in my signature. Feel free to reach out. 
Keep trucking!

Looking at my emails, I second this. I don’t believe I got an email from you….

feel free to reach out!

Muttel
We're in this struggle together; feel free to reach out! 
Muttel15@gmail.com

Feel free to call/text! (908) 251-9590 (google)

Check out my thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/413043-My-ENTIRE-story#413043

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 03 Sep 2024 01:53 #420713

definitely emailed you
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