“Consistency is key“- trying to make get words into my head since I started this account, my struggle until now it was an open a new GYE account every time I’d decide to overcome my struggles but then neglect it for one reason or another. This time around, I promised myself, regardless if I stay strong or fail I’m going to stick to this account and stay consistent with tracking so far I’m at a 27 day streak! I had a 64 day a while back. I’m so scared I’ll get caught in & fail at a weak moment for now I’m just taking it day by day & making sure to track & engage with GYE because consistency is key!!

Welcome!
Great job my friend! Keep going!
If I may add... Maybe get yourself a accountability partner who will call you every day or so. Your GYE account will not hold you accountable if you decide not to check in one day or to completely neglect your recovery, To be honest, why do you think that this time will be different than the previous?? this is a question you need to ask yourself and answer it by doing something different, maybe by changing your strategy, looking into what made you fail previously to take for a lesson for the future.
Whatever you do, stay strong and remember that we are always here for you, check in even when things are going well.

Wishing you much success in breaking free.
True self

Hatzlacha, yes an accountability partner really helped save me... Also try speaking to Hashem Help Me.

100% I signed up for the partner program my partner reached out but then went quiet for now I’m utilizing the chat feature but would love to have a partner preferably someone that hit the 90 day or even 6 month mark

Hit the 30 day mark today bh!!

Beautiful! Keep trucking! What do you find works for you?

Amazing, keep us posted!

Mainly a commitment to track every day regardless of what happens ( so far that resulted in only victories bh

Sent you a PM Yesterday.

How do I see my pm? It’s not showing up under chats 

on top right corner by private messages

themakabi5783 wrote on 21 Aug 2023 23:16:

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At 33 days going strong. I’ve made it to 64 days a while back but fell through some times ppl post about falling after 120 days or more how do you stay motivated to push through the 90 days when you see that the struggle never ends? 
bh I’m still holding up & aiming to hit the 90 day mark but does this ever end? Anyone free for a long time with advice/perspective?

themakabi5783 wrote on 23 Aug 2023 06:08:

Hey, great work! REalize that its not the "streak", but the fact that you changed. You are now a person that does it once a month rather than twice daily. Thats improvement! Of course the work isnt over, but you have definitely done a huge part!

Woof! What a tough day I fooled myself into thinking that at this point I’m somewhat passed it. I was so wrong! At 34 days bh! Has anyone ever had this wierd situation we’re watching Flight to freedom videos actually triggered a urge? Kinda of confusing