so called girl/women was actually some guy pretending to be a girl in a attempt to get others to feed some sort of fetish of his...i dont have enough experience to really say for sure but my gut feeling is that its not such a womenly thing to randomly strike up a chat with a random dude and get straight to the point as heeling said...idk thats just my feeling on this maybe itll help heeling and richtig feel a bit better if they  would know that this person was actually some ugly hairy dude sitting in his moms basement pretending to be a chick  (josh david)

We have to stop it

There's no way to stop it, all one can to, is to protect himself by not sharing any private contact details publically.

Thank you for your concern. However, you are writing that the "so called woman/girl WAS actually some guy.....".

1 - Nice assumption. How do you know? I do agree a bit with your what your saying but there no way to know for sure.

2 - I dont think you (I) can stop anyone but yourself (myself). There will always be evil (sorry for using this word) people out there trying to catch the vulnerable. It can a male or female makes no difference in gender, there will always be people on both sides of the aisle who are struggling and unfortunately will try to schlep people with them.

Btw, for those who cant see the BB forum. Richtig and myself both had a person identified as a female reach out via Google chat.....BH we were able to close the conversation. Richtig did a better job then I did....

Unless I'm missing something, it seems like dim12 is simply quoting josh david here:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/396104-Some-Stuff?limit=15&start=135#398184