hi my name is hakol tov i just join the group of gye and yesterday i put a filter on my cellphone i`m so happy with thet after looking on porn for over two years with falls and ups let hope thet i should can stay with thet for long time to come

hakol tov wrote on 02 Dec 2022 15:44:

Welcome to the family!! We are here for you. Have a gut Shabbos. 

HI! You came to the right place, we all want to hear from you, let us know how you are doing, tell us about your struggles, successes and even your falls...we are here for you and rooting for you to win! Keep on posting!

welcome hakol tov.  we are happy that you joined us.  It is great that you took the step of putting a filter on your phone.  There is a tremendous amount to learn from the chevra here.  I hope you will stick around and join the conversations.  

May we keep inspiring each other.

vehkam

Welcome!

Please check out these great free resources:
ebook- The Battle of the Generation
Audio series- The Fight
They're very good to start with.
See below in my signature for the links.

​Hatzlocha!

Welcome to the family!
love your username ( great attitude!)and love the fact that you put on a filter to ur phone- that shows that you really want to change! Just asking… are you going through the flight to freedom program? It’s amazing!!

speaking from personal experience, be prepared filter alone may not cut it. For myself, I tried one thing after the next with filters, but wasn't enough. After I got accountability few months ago, bH been amazing since then! There's a section on the site to get set up with it. Or can reach out to Hashem Help me who's helped countless people here. michelgelner@gmail.com

If you're a bachur, very important to get hadracha in rewiring and prep for marriage in the proper time, so that all the hashchasa and lies of this stuff doesn't effect your marriage. And קל וחומר if you already are, to get help in that area. It'll change around your marriage. Hashem Help me is amazing in this area as well.

Hatzlacha rabah! 

Captain wrote on 02 Dec 2022 16:36:

Have pinned them and bzh will use them thanks for sharing although this post wasn't in specifically sent to me, I still gained from it!

chizuk613613 wrote on 04 Dec 2022 01:58:

I agree 100% with your point, since I myself can attest to that, that no matter the filter, there will somehow get a fallout most of the time sadly, although it's called a filter and supposed to do the trick. (I have had Tag, Gentec and more) and while reading it the more I believe I have to do more than what I am holding.

But just want to ask and say maybe there should be an assessment regarding the new fellah, since yes he is wanting to stop, but shouldn't we work at like stages, because it's 10000% very impressive to this Chasuvei Person for getting a filter and that itself is huge to celebrate!! And obviously there are levels of filters, that may be totally not good or very easible to break through, but at his stage shouldn't we assess that first. I am trying to understand this myself, because this can be asked by a teenager I spoke with and from nothing to something is huge, so adding someone accountable I also agree with, and not that you said it wasn't big to what he was doing. I just wanted to understand that isn't there matregot (levels) correct me if I am wrong please. I am also just in the learning stage.

hakol tov wrote on 02 Dec 2022 15:44:

I am Very Impressed in you on coming on here and even  sharing that you put a filter, keep it up You should only Keep Going Up in Kedusha BzH

Guys! All good intentions but please slow down… also try not to hijack a new poster’s thread…

Vehkam wrote on 04 Dec 2022 04:32:

Truly a pressing issue.
See here for my list of the last 492 threads to be hijacked.

hello everybody i wasnt here for a while but bh im much better

im was struggling with p&m for years...

Hi yoel18! Maybe you want to start your own thread and tell us a little about yourself? You're at the right place, we want to hear from you
And Hakoltov, how's it going? Where are you holding?