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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 02 Apr 2021 01:46 #366266

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I think only you could answer that question. You could make up whatever you want to be considered a fall. Meaning whatever you had in mind when you started the 90 day chart, that is what will be considered a fall. Some people may have the chart only for porn while some only for masturbating, while some for some other area in kedusha. It's up to you. 
It's not a game trying to get to the longest clean streak, it's there to motivate the individual to keep on trying whatever he feels he is up to in life.
(If you watched the preview to GYE 2.0, you may have noticed that they will have two different charts; one for porn and one for masturbating, but now that it's one chart you could make it for whatever you want).
That's what I think personally...makes sense?
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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 02 Apr 2021 01:53 #366269

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Agreed 
I use it for falling due to losing sperm

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 02 Apr 2021 08:14 #366280

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I'd say do whatever will help you the most. The streak are the least important part of being healthy. The most important thing is living a normal lust free and healthy life.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 07 Apr 2021 00:38 #366444

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Today I needed to buy something off Amazon. Come across and willingly looked at some Pritzinus products. Very sad...

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 07 Apr 2021 03:39 #366449

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Cesare wrote on 07 Apr 2021 00:38:
Today I needed to buy something off Amazon. Come across and willingly looked at some Pritzinus products. Very sad...

Yes. Amazon is terrible. I'm not sure why they allow what they allow. It's full of terrible content. It is my biggest active trigger. As I type this I am struggling because of stuff I saw there. It's blocked on my phone but I shop alot with other devices.
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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 07 Apr 2021 04:13 #366455

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Grant400 wrote on 07 Apr 2021 03:39:

Cesare wrote on 07 Apr 2021 00:38:
Today I needed to buy something off Amazon. Come across and willingly looked at some Pritzinus products. Very sad...

Yes. Amazon is terrible. I'm not sure why they allow what they allow. It's full of terrible content. It is my biggest active trigger. As I type this I am struggling because of stuff I saw there. It's blocked on my phone but I shop alot with other devices.

The good filters are able to have certain pages of Amazon blocked automatically.This allows you to shop with some piece of mind.Not the solution to all problems,but certainly a head start.You also can block all skin tones with some filters.
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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 07 Apr 2021 05:12 #366458

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Grant400 wrote on 07 Apr 2021 03:39:

Cesare wrote on 07 Apr 2021 00:38:
Today I needed to buy something off Amazon. Come across and willingly looked at some Pritzinus products. Very sad...

Yes. Amazon is terrible. I'm not sure why they allow what they allow. It's full of terrible content. It is my biggest active trigger. As I type this I am struggling because of stuff I saw there. It's blocked on my phone but I shop alot with other devices.

I know, really strange. I speak to people and they say, oh everything is blocked, I just have email, banking and Amazon. I'm like uh huh...

Maybe it's just me, maybe I'm just sick that I can find an undressed woman on practically any site that exists...

Even my email... All those subscriptions that I cannot unsubscribe from because by filter blocks it (anyone have advice on this???) (really just Facebook, Instagram etc.).

And then there are the promotions. Besides that it's really creepy, if I logged in to my email when my wife is shopping online, I get ads from the websites that she shopped on in my inbox! Creepy!

Whatever, thought I'd share that. 

Until I fully graduate (does that ever even happen?) Amazon has yichud restrictions (actually, even stronger). No Amazon out of my wife's view. She hates it, but I make her sit with me while I shop (Not too often, but when I do, it's usually for things that she has zero interest in).

Still looking for a solution.

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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 07 Apr 2021 05:19 #366460

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Lou wrote on 07 Apr 2021 04:13:

Grant400 wrote on 07 Apr 2021 03:39:

Cesare wrote on 07 Apr 2021 00:38:
Today I needed to buy something off Amazon. Come across and willingly looked at some Pritzinus products. Very sad...

Yes. Amazon is terrible. I'm not sure why they allow what they allow. It's full of terrible content. It is my biggest active trigger. As I type this I am struggling because of stuff I saw there. It's blocked on my phone but I shop alot with other devices.

The good filters are able to have certain pages of Amazon blocked automatically.This allows you to shop with some piece of mind.Not the solution to all problems,but certainly a head start.You also can block all skin tones with some filters.
Hatzlocha

I have a "good" filter and it either filters images, like an extremely inappropriately dressed Bic pen, and then I can't shop, or it's open and, well, you know what happens then.

I would imagine some filters can filter by category also and even by what the image is tagged as but it doesn't seem like mine is able to do that effectively. Maybe some others do? Anyone know? 
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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 07 Apr 2021 19:53 #366480

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][i]I have a wrote:





We all know that filters are not perfect. I was merely saying it can help. I used to have nativ. On there certain pages were blocked automatically. Also certain pages had skin tone blocked although I had requested to see images on Amazon due the Bic pen issue you mentioned. I now have Techloq which I believe works with key words. So anything with a word they deem as "bad" will be blocked.
All this being said in interest of full disclosure (as embarrassing as it is to say this)because my curiosity was piqued about this,I did go and test out what was blocked on Amazon. Unfortunately not enough and that led me down the slippery slope until I ended up falling on a different site.
Last Edit: 07 Apr 2021 19:55 by lou.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 08 Apr 2021 01:19 #366495

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Cesare wrote on 02 Apr 2021 01:32:
I was looking at immodest women on media these last two days. It is not porn but images on media of women dressed very skimpily. It happened twice in the last two days where I was about to open a porn site but somehow I held. Should I mark it as a fall?

What was your goal when you started your streak? If it was to stop pornographic content then this doesn't fall under that category. So for now you should continue, but accept upon yourself that starting now any viewing of immodest women will be considered a fall.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 08 Apr 2021 19:22 #366553

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Ok I will, I think that is for the better. Thank you very much.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 19 Apr 2021 00:24 #367044

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I just passed forty one days clean from zera levtala and p*rn feeling great, sadly today I saw today some immodest content. For eleven days I did not look at any immodest women, today I broke it. I am keeping my 90 day count for zera levtala I decided but today for looking at immodesty it is back to zero. I am almost 50 days clean of p*rn and masturbation!  BeZras HaShem I shall have a stronger will to not seek out these women of immodesty online.

Re: Nocturnal Emissions 19 Apr 2021 01:15 #367046

Mazel Tov on 41! 
Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.

Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled -  if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls.

The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting!


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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 19 Apr 2021 01:19 #367047

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Cesare wrote on 19 Apr 2021 00:24:
I just passed forty one days clean from zera levtala and p*rn feeling great, sadly today I saw today some immodest content. For eleven days I did not look at any immodest women, today I broke it. I am keeping my 90 day count for zera levtala I decided but today for looking at immodesty it is back to zero. I am almost 50 days clean of p*rn and masturbation!  BeZras HaShem I shall have a stronger will to not seek out these women of immodesty online.

Wow good to hear!
Thanks for sharing.
Looking forward to hearing more good news!
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Re: Nocturnal Emissions 04 May 2021 18:18 #367961

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In 4 days I will have not watched pornography or wasted seed in 60 days. I am very proud of myself and I feel fantastic. My mental health and physical health have improved. I have consistently been keeping with Daf Yomi to increase my Emunah every day. Whenever I intentionally view an immodest woman on the street or online and even sometimes if it is a true accident I read a chapter of Issurei Biah. This is my first streak with GYE and it is the longest time I have not seen any filth since the habit started. I might be on the forum more to talk about my journey which bh will be over in less than a month.
Last Edit: 04 May 2021 18:19 by Cesare.
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