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Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 04:54 #359701

HI!!!!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
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Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 05:02 #359703

Wowwwww! What a day! Woke up late but was unbelievable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Went to mikvah in the morning! And had an unbelievable day bH!!! day number4!!!!!! And... had what of the most unbelievable maariv’s!! One that I didn’t have in many months!!! Was such an experience was amazing and learned and had a nice deep conversation with one friend (which is progress for more logical men lol) AND learned a Daf today on the side which is also progress bH!!!!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 05:11 #359705

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Thank you for the update!

Keep yourself busy, this way you won't have to think about other things!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 05:54 #359708

I miss my love !!!!!!!!!!!!!  I want her to come smile and embrace me!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 06:03 #359712

I love this that “captain” told me unbelievable!We only live once so if you want to do what you want to do you have to do it despite these problems that are standing in your way!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 06:33 #359722

I feel the LOVE!! Thanks everyone! I just FaceTimed a close rabbi of mine;) and was so fun haha lol! And had such a good conversation with a gye member was amazing! 
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 06:48 #359726

Gnighty guys!!!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 07:14 #359731

Anyway just made yummy eggs and bread lololol eating my breakfast now hahaha !! I’m Bh in good spirits! but still feeling Where’s my love?!? Oh well I miss her a lot ! 
will get through this! I wanna hear from her more I miss her so much but will get there bezH! 
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 07:21 #359733

Wow just read something and it made me SMILLLLEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!! Bh wow I’m getting tired I better bench and get some sleep!!! 
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 07:31 #359736

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Easy fast!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 11:45 #359741

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Shtarkandemotional wrote on 24 Dec 2020 05:17:

Markz wrote on 24 Dec 2020 05:15:

Shtarkandemotional wrote on 24 Dec 2020 05:10:

Shtarkandemotional wrote on 24 Dec 2020 05:09:

YeshivaGuy wrote on 24 Dec 2020 05:04:
It’s ok, no offense taken.
Just not always wise to candidly discard any advice which isn’t so comfortable.


Anyway I might be being to harsh now...
Hatzlocha

Wooooh let’s start over Lolol! So... yeshiva guy I really appreciate your trying to help me I will think about what your saying! Like there definitely is a void... will think about it thank you I hope you forgive me... really really I’m sorry didn’t mean to hurt you AT ALL



Your user name should be
ShtarkEmotional

Maskim markZ 100%!!! I’m gonna talk with menachem bezH to change it for me! 

That name suggestion ShtarkEmotional was based on the impression you give over on your latest messages here. 

Better yet, ask Menachem which shrink he recommends, because then you’ll get a super name change to EmotionalyShtark 
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Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 20:58 #359763

Wow!!! Day number 5!!!!! Going strong!! Never got to this point yet! Of no contact whatsoever 5 days wooh!!! Pulling through this fast which seems like everyday for me lol !!!! Anyway, have an amazing shabbos everyone!!!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 21:01 #359764

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Good shabbos!
You'll get through this.

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 25 Dec 2020 21:06 #359766

Thx!! Thoughts at heart to my girlfriend “honey, good shabbos! Can’t believe we did 5 days already!!!! I love you so much from the depth of my heart! Hope your have an easy fast and have the most pure shabbos of your life dear!! Enjoy every minute of it!!! I’m gonna try to learn and shteig and enjoy it:kissing_heart: love you honey always remember we’re holding hands at heart and in it together as one! And always remember this will make us after all even closer!!!! Good shabbos!!“ these are my thoughts so venting to the chevra good shabbos !!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 26 Dec 2020 23:53 #359775

Hey all,

Hope my entire family HERE had a wonderful shabbos!!! So I’m gonna make a really long post now lol so everyone hold on tight lol! Firstly day #6 wow! Unbelievable! And even more unbelievable that I got to this point without crying ONCE! Why?! Because it’s GYE that helped me!!!!!! If not for them this would NOT have worked it was each day venting Etc... and it’s knowing that me and my girlfriend are still one and we’re just taking a healthy step back so we can live more productive and healthy lives!!! :-) so for day #6 I’m going so strong Bh Bh!!!! Honestly sooo different then last break but so ONE at heart!!! Feeling so much clarity and feeling so together in this doesn’t even feel like I took a break in a way cuz I have such a good mindset and such an amazing site called GYE! So... THANKU HASHEM!! For making this break so successful!! AND even if I would fall and call her or whatever I know that this is a very good way of doing a break and a PROPER mindset Bh!!! :-):-):-) so... today I read a book on Shomer negiah... so firstly for anyone struggling or not struggling yet even but can see how it can be difficult in the future ... SHOULD READ THIS BOOK!!!! It’s called “the magic touch” I personally never thought about myself seeing this area be a struggle for me now or In the future but the yetzer hara manages to grab everyone... so here I am!! And getting tremendous chizuk from this book and wow! such a real mindset! So I read a lot of it today and I’m thinking wow! She written a story in here that I feel so describes my relationship inna sense so I’m gonna share it with ya’ll and maybe the chevra will see things eye to eye with me and get a better vision of things... before I share it I am changing it a lil from the book just so it can be more accurate to my personal situation also I would like to thank everyone on this thread for giving me help and sharing all their thoughts with me I really appreciate it and you definitely will be rewarded!!!:-) so the author says this story that I will share with you but just uses a lil different details cuz it’s not exactly my story... so basically it goes like this... the chapter is called “the strongest love potion!”so this person comes to visit the author and shares his story..he starts... and says he’s been with the most attractive woman in the past! He’s had many relationships non which were deep cuz he was caught up in touch and all his relationships didn’t really get to the core... he met with this girl and didn’t seem so attracted to her... and had very deep conversations with her and there was an amazing click(for the first time he’s experiencing something like this) and he’s shmoozing hours on end with her day after day... and since this girl is coming from a more frum background he respects her and understands that she is Shomer negiah and he doesn’t have any physical contact... so after many conversations he goes and he thanks this author of the book and says after I’m gonna become more frum I will be marrying this girl... and I wanna thank you! Because your book is the real thing and so true because he says I’ve seen many many models and most attractive woman and he says this one wasn’t so much in my eyes but I appreciate her so much as a person as the real thing our values!, our goals!, our dreams!, her knowledge, her middos!, her respect!, her skills!, and he goes on and then says something so unbelievable! He says now I look at her picture and He says he’s taken aback he looks at her and he sees a gorgeous girl!.... and the story is much longer but I’m gonna cut it short for now to just apply it to my own situation so...

I think my situation is so similar... I spoke to her on the phone at the moment everything so perfect everything seemed like a lot of what I was looking for... and time went on and slowly I saw how much I really like this girl how I saw endless good in her! Not in her looks... in her middos! in her outlook of life! I cannot even give you an accurate picture of how much I grew just from knowing this girl!!! And I’ll say this today and will always know this in my heart! Wether this will work out one day or not (for a shidduch) WILL NOT take away from how much I personally grew knowing this girl! I saw in this person things which I never saw on anyone else, her kindness and care for others was something that I was taken aback by... so so many things showed me and helped me realize why I like this girl... and then later on I saw that she really is very good looking but I found it so cool that when something real develops you come to appreciate the physical more as well! Anyway I really enjoyed this book so far! And really recommend it to everyone, like even before dating... it’s so כדאי to read this! I hope everyone has an amazing week bezH and gut voch!

“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29
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