You can pm me, I'd love to have another bochur around my age to be in touch with.

Shnitzel and kugel wrote on 04 Mar 2019 05:18:

Here i am a month later still clean bh, time goes quick..

Gut voch to all!

Shnitzel and kugel wrote on 31 Mar 2019 03:45:

Great job, can I serve you Shnitzel and Kugel ??

Being that my taphsik shvauh ends tonight I don't want to take any chances so I made one more shavua, for 6 weeks and added a slightly bigger knas if I act out c"v.
That way I don't become too comfortable with the taphsik method...

What will happen after this coming one finishes, we'll see then, meanwhile I'm trucking at full speed. 

:smile:Keep up trucking

We are all with you

300 days ago I joined gye, coming from acting out 5 times a day, since joining I only had 5 falls bh!

Never imagined I will reach this milestone and happy I tried.

#36

Gut voch to all,

Great job, can I serve you Shnitzel and Kugel + pickles ??

#spring#beinhazmanim#disaster
#pritzus#hashem#help 

WOW . Kol hakavod.

Not a typical shnitzel post..

So someone asked me how my urges decreased drastically after therapy so I explained that I did muscle testing/kinesiology to which he responded "I'm not into that stuff as most rabonim dont allow it only a few permit it". 

I respect that but somehow when it comes to mastrubating, you don't think whether it's permitted or not, you do it regardless, even though it's a terrible עבירה.

So let me ask you this, would you rather do alternative therapy and rely on those rabomim which permit it and hopefully get your acting out under control, or would you rather not go and continue doing the worst sins? 

the latter option might be what we call a נבל ברשות התורה...

You have a point. A psak can differ depending on circumstances. But, it's never one specific thing that does it. Different things work for different people in different situations.

SSeems like your muscle testing was similar to tashlich... sending your aveiros away... why should that be forbidden?

Lol

#40

This past week was such an intense week, wow! But bh made it through, when I having huge urges and suddenly remembered about my shvuah, I calmed down alot cuz I realized I won't be able to act out, poshut not worth the knas..

Good Shabbos to all,

#45 

Half way there, I mean half way to 90, and so? Numbers do count! I didn't act out for x amount, alright? So I can do it for longer too bezh..