But right now, here's the bush







And here are you. How is masturbation going?

Let's say we've been masturbating, and comparing below our belt to our friends, and dippin' in holy water too, is sex satisfaction with your wife which may not happen for 6 months - is that your main concern today?

i just wanna understand

What about sexoholic anonymous?

i am not getting what you trying to say 

didannotzach wrote on 06 Apr 2016 05:26:

I have sent you a Pm' (private message)

What I can learn from your post is,
1.  not to look at others in the Mikva.
2.  not to compare myself with others.
3.  to think less. You cant and wont know what your future wife likes till you'll live with her.
4.  its unbelievable how we buy all the garbage they sell us about .................

You deserve a much better life.
Start reading the Handbook

I'm trying to stay out from writing on the Forums because a few different reasons but this one I can stop my self 
Are you serious what you are asking does it look like a porn blog  what you ask for help for everything its comes on your mind its a RECOVERY SITE 
I hope this whole chat is being deleted  asap
Markz to you I don't know how to help people but I'm shocked how you are speaking like this here 
Im sorry everyone 

Didan, please see my post in your other thread.

Getting married wrote:

You have been on guard your eyes for a LONG time, and me only a few days more than you

If you met didannotzach or he emailed you and he asked you his ridiculous thread question, and you want to help him, as I do, I'd like to hear how you would respond

Telling him to get lost, isn't a solution (that works - statistically)

Our new member needs welcoming warmly. Apparently he's a chassidishe bachur that toivels 3x daily. Deep down he's here to recover - if you read his other posts. Apparently you can't see further than the superficiality of his question, which I understand

I await to hear your kind response to him, even if his question didn't belong on gye

GYE is for recovery, and he has an insecurity related to his recovery. It is not a porn blog. I firmly agree with Mark.

#1 for sure everyone deserves to get a warm welcome and feel comfortable 
#2 thats one of the reason why I'm not writing at all because Im not trained to help  maybe only make it worse 
#3 if he would ask me to help him in private or by email  I would think a way to help him  for sure not  to ask it here on such a holy site (please don't email me because I cannot help you )
why I took I so seriously let say he wrote  it here thats one mistake but its starting a whole chat and asking weird questions I was shocked maybe I'm wrong maybe thats the procedure how to handle it but from when I on the site I never saw a chat because of that I think the whole chatt belongs not here​
MARKZ I RESPECT YOU AND I ADMIRE YOU FOR GIVING AWAY YOUR DAY AND NIGHT TO HELP PEOPLE NORMALLY YOU ARE THE FIRST TO RESPOND 
But I think here you did a mistake 
 

Let me make my self more clear when I will start a chat on the site let say I have a problem one foot is smaller  than the other you would ask me how my m. Is going you would send me to a doctor the words he is using  is such a opposite from what the site is made for he is telling us that he even measured it WHAT THE HELL YOU ARE ON THE WRONG SITE 
I sorry I cannot put off the fire of קנאות in me this time 

GM if you don't understand maybe you are lucky. But this question of his is directly related to his problem which he discussed on another thread. Maybe he asked it in too blunt a manner but I assure you that the fact that this bothers him is related to recovery in a big way. 

Again this is not the way and place to be discussed on this site very strictly point blank I could of witre much more against from  his frist post I didn't because I saw the other chat so I don't think you have a problem to say sorry and take it down I you have you have more  what to work on yourself 

Getting married wrote on 06 Apr 2016 17:13:

When you become the moderator or the heiligeh guard, (L'havdil bein kodesh l'kodesh), then you can decide. Also, I don't know why you are blaming Mark; he's not the moderator.

I don't want to me the moderator at all but when someone can write like this on a holy site like this I don't understand how you can even talk back to him what I would do I would take him to a side and explain him nicely that he should understand why its not the place here its not a different if he thinks he is.……… 
The only way I would back down is getting a personal email or writing on the forum from the guard  that what  he did is right 
Good day 
Hatzloche 

Didan, I agree with doingtshuva, He wrote that your may or may not like your size which is fine because size doesn't matter. I hope I marry a girl and I don't care about size. Because The first commandment to Adam and Chava was be fruitful and multiply.  Either way I really don't care about size. Because HaShem made us have longer or shorter arms, legs, fingers etc. I hope this helps.