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Should i do something? 28 May 2013 16:48 #207836

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I have a married friend (certainly part of our "chushev" clan) who asked me to see if i can fix his android tablet, he mentioned that he saw a website that gave step by step directions but souldn't figure it out. so i went to history to find the page that he was talking about and lo and behold there was PORN in the history!!

I don't know for sure that it is from him as he has a wife and kids (albeit quite young). Should i mention something to him?
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Re: Should i do something? 28 May 2013 17:02 #207838

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maybe ask your Rav, or even his Rav (without mentioning names at first) if you think he will handle it sensitively.

My general feeling is imagine your were in his position, what would you think was the best way for a friend to handle it? chances are he also wants to stop but coming down hard on him won't help. If you're going to do anything, do it with extreme care and sensitivity.

Re: Should i do something? 28 May 2013 19:13 #207845

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Tough question. I also think you need to find someone qulified to answer, probably from outside this forum.

Re: Should i do something? 28 May 2013 19:33 #207848

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guard used to offer to send an anonymous email about GYE without anyone knowing who/what instigated the email. i will email Guard now.
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