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New Here, Could Use a lot of Help 03 Feb 2013 01:50 #201710

asdf1234
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Hello every1 im new here. Its hard fr me to talk about this and write but I will give it a try.

Im now 19 and in yeshiva. Ive struggled watching pornography since I was in 7th grade and now im in my second year in yeshiva.

I never really viewed it as being the worst thing in the word until the end of high school when I got more mature and realized its affects me and will affect my life and my marriage.

Im viewed as a role model in the community I live in and one of the top bachurim in yeshiva. But i feel when its comes to these things I have 0 control.

Unfortunatley this tayva has lead me to not only to computers but also to strip cubs, massage parlors, and even one time ordering a prostitute. This has taken over my life. I reallly feel lost and feel like I have no way out I dont know what to do. I definitley need real help. But I would never be able to afford a therapist. Pease hep me figure out where to start and what to do.

Re: New Here, Could Use a lot of Help 03 Feb 2013 11:05 #201724

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Can I send you a personal message, please? Or would you feel more comfortable discussing the details of this on this forum? I was at least as messed up as you are right now, and am clean for many years, be"H after following much mistaken advice I got from many (well-meaning) people over the years.

If your life is out of control now, there is help. In fact, you are probably at the one point in your life where there is the very most hope, right now.

You are not alone, chaver.

- Dov

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: New Here, Could Use a lot of Help 04 Feb 2013 02:04 #201738

chaimcharlie Current streak: 10 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 396 Karma: 6	Wow, sounds like you are going through a lot. I hope it works out for you. All the best!!!

Re: New Here, Could Use a lot of Help 04 Feb 2013 02:06 #201739

MBJ OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 655 Karma: 114	You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. Sounds like you can use some serious help and I hope you are serious about getting that help. There is no time like the present. My advice is listen to what Dov has to say and follow his advice very carefully. Good luck.
	My Story Only when we make our real lives sweeter than our fantasies will we reap the emotional rewards, the happiness of recovery. - AlexEliezer Focus on making the right choices as they come up. - Skeptical When I start to literally accept G-d's Will as guiding my life today, things start to change. - Dov

Re: New Here, Could Use a lot of Help 04 Feb 2013 02:24 #201742

asdf1234 Current streak: 18 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 4 Karma: 0	Would love if you could message me and we can speak more.

Re: New Here, Could Use a lot of Help 04 Feb 2013 02:27 #201744

asdf1234 Current streak: 18 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 4 Karma: 0	Would love if you (Dov) could message me and we can speak more.

Re: New Here, Could Use a lot of Help 04 Feb 2013 02:38 #201746

asdf1234 Current streak: 18 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 4 Karma: 0	Definitely feels good knowing other people are also struggling and I appreciate everyone's support.

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