i get attracted to woman and men can i still have a normal life

Why not?? (i.e. stick with the women, they are much better for you.)

Welcome Tov
Normal life includes challenges. Some more universal, some more limited, some unique to the individual. You're not the first guy with same sex attraction to post here.
See, for example:
www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=4125.0 />and
www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=4612.msg122076#msg122076 />
Assuming you feel acting on your SSA would be harmful to you, what are you doing to get away from it? Are you staring at guys? going further? looking at pics?

It would be helpful if you would share more of your story and where you're holding, omitting anything that would be identifying, and anything that would be triggering (arousing) for the rest of us, including those with SSA.