1) I'm a BT, but this is relevant to you even if you're an FFB.  I basically have the mind of an FFB now - I know so many so closely I know that's right - and so I'm going to use this eitza myself - starting tonight.
2) This is not about the internet, but it is applicable to taivas nashim (or others) bichlal.
3) I was 24 and had been becoming frum for a few years already when I went to a Lubavitch (BT) yeshiva. 
4)  Like all Lubav bochrim I went out to do mivtza tefillin, i.e. putting tefillin on men in the street, shops etc., every Friday afternoon.  My route was all around Ben Yehuda Street, ie. the Times Square of Jerusalem.  I don't think I need to explain what was there for me to look at, especially in the summer time when school/college was out for the holidays.
5) I SWEAR to you that as a single, red-blooded man (having previously thought about, looked and done all the things you would expect of a young irreligious man) I did not look at or think about anything I should not have, the whole time I was there! Every Friday!  Not only that, but I didn't even find it a challenge.
6) Even when I came back to my home town, still as a young single man, and took the train to work every day, it was the same story.  There was nothing to look at, and there was no challenge.  I swear.
6) Q: How did I do it?
7) A: All I thought about was G-D and Torah.
8) It sounds simple, but it took me years of learning Chassidus to get there.
9) So the answer to this, for me and I hope for you, is to think about G-D and get to know him by learning Chassidus.

anonymousBT wrote on 25 Jul 2011 21:25:

OH YEA!
ill do it!  ill learn chasidut breslav! ;D

not davka breslav

breslov isn't bad if you know how to balance it
so pass the maharan, man 8)

right, but most breslever don't know how to balance it,
& it's really hard to.

idk if we should b talking 'bout anyone since bris halasoin is mechuvan neged bris hama'oir

i'm not talking personally from someone so that's not called loshon hora. 

hey we'rre at a tie! now i also have 27 posts lol  ;D
whatever love every jew

i'm with U,
as long he is not a אפיקורס.
i love him.

it's not fair 
u have 28 now lol
soon we'll both have reached much more and no one's gonna have a musag what we're talkin' about
RAT
ROCK AND TRUCK

but U have to say 1 kapitel more

lo yichra aph adoni if i ask u to say too much tehillim 

first of all it's not לא יחרה it's לא יכרע,
but anyway i don't have time to say more then 5 kapitel thilim every day.

anonymousBT wrote on 25 Jul 2011 21:25:


anonymous,

you doing Haftzas Hama'yonos?

I'm kind of Chabad and went to one of the lubo yeshivas for a while. I remember also that when I went on Mivtzayim, it wasn't hard to have Shemiras Einayim b.c my whole mindset was a selfless, ahavas Yisrael mindset.

I wonder how many lubos are on here?

Thinking about Hashem all day is the way to go. Garden of Emuna by Rabbi Shalom Arush translated by Rabbi Lazar Brody. Changed my life. Ausome Sefer. Highly reccomended.