OK, ok.....phew.

I downloaded K9 Web Protection.....

I still can't believe I just did that.

Problem is, who do i give the password to? Before you suggest my wife, there is no way I could do that. She has no inkling about this matter.

I still cant believe I downloaded the programme.

Would never have been able to do it without you guys.....

I'm sweating!

Good night, talk tomorrow,

Menachem

Make a random password and put in my e-mail address for the password: eyes.guard@gmail.com
You're doing a vital step. You will feel so much freer soon.

Menachem, maybe if you predict success you'll get success.  If you predict failure you'll get failure.

What do you think?

Did you ever tell your kid, "Don't spill the milk."  What happens?  He spills the milk.

Instead, be careful.

You will feel so much better once you know you've put that block on. If you need someone to
hold your pw, let me know.

Menachem,

I'm so glad that you have a filter now! Its going to make such a difference, i know it!  Make sure to email a random password to Guardureyes!

Also make sure to delete any trace of the password from your computer and email account.

Problem with k9 password is that it requires you to enter it in 2 times for validation. So you cant enter something without knowing what you entered the first time. Solution is to let someone else have control over your account. Someone from this site.

Im a big talker - I still havent done that. But I will.

Just one last bit of advice:

When you set the filter for it's level of security, make sure while you are now presently beating the menuval, make certain to take advantage of this opportunity, and set it for the high level of security. Unfortunately the lower levels are just not enough.

eme, you don't have to know what it is to put it in again. Make a random password, copy it, and paste it in again the second time.

Hi Guys,

I am going to talk to my wife today about the issue in general terms. Hopefully she will do the password for me. She's not very computer savvy or technical so I hope I can convince her that it's just something that she has to do.......

Hope it works,

Menachem

Menachem, you're taking a big and bold step and I congratulate you on your courage. Be honest.  Tell your wife you've accidentally fallen upon some bad sites and you want to prevent this from happening in the future.

Menachem - and everyone. I want you all to read the beautiful update to this story that I just got in today! (It has to do with the wife too Menachem, but it may not apply to your situation).

Go to this page and read the story - especially the part called "Update 1" - just in today and very inspiring!

This is a beautiful story and makes our work worth every second. 

Guys, before you just blurt out anything to your wife, PLEASE speak to a professional
beforehand to help guide you through it.  It can be very traumatic for your wife and
damage your relationship.  Some people do it with a counselor in the room.

I will say, if you have a good relationship now, I concur that getting it over with, eliminates
the secrets and lets you live a life of freedom. Marriage is a true partnership, with ups and downs.
No one expects perfection.

Menchem,

  While you are presently holding the steering wheel in your hands, you may wish to consider the words of Chaz'l concerning:
    "Aizehu Chachem....mi sheh roeh es a nolad,"

  You mentioned concerning your wife that: "I am going to talk to my wife today about the issue in general terms. Hopefully she will do the password for me. She's not very computer savvy or technical so I hope I can convince her that it's just something that she has to do......."

  If she is not computer savy or technical,and she also doesn not fully understand the extent of what we are dealing with, then in a moment of weakness, menuval may tell you to have your wife enter the code because "I have to change or update something etc", and she being not so technical oriented, and computer savy will just do as she is told. Therefore, while you are still strong and bashing the Y"H, you may in fact wish to send the code to "eyes@....."
    Just as Aitzah....  Hatztlachah Rabah

Hi all,

I've been away in the far east on business for a few days so I haven't been able to post.

B'H its all good news and reading the various replies have given me much strength to go on.

Yes, times have been testing and hard but with the continued help of Hashem and you guys I will prevail!

thanks again so much

Menachem

Crakerjack, great to hear from you. Keep us informed. We are all in this together.